360 no-scope on autistic people tbh
I have my written tone read as 'angry' (or sometimes, passionate) just because of my formal word choice. It's angry if I'm pointing out something bad, and passionate if I'm sharing something good. Because it's not just meaning, its also being compared to everybody else's writing.
As it is, when people call my name, turns out if you say 'yes?' Or 'what's up?' in a completely neutral tone (because I'm concentrating on my task, not my performance).... the default interpretation is 'pissed'. So now that's another area I have to mask for others, even while I'm trying to work.
It's the same reason women talking like men seem like bitches. It's not about what you actually say or how you say it, it's being compared to how you're expected to behave. If we expect men to be forthright, and women to be diplomatic, then forthright women are bitches and diplomatic men are delicate.