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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by Goadstool@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

You are not a "boomer" if you aren't in your twenties. You are not irrelevant if you aren't in your twenties. You don't go straight from being a kid to being "old". Stages of life are fluid and vary for each person, and should be savored to the fullest of your means to do so.

Stop letting internet memes about age, height, and general state of being have an actual impact on your mental health. They mean nothing, and don't benefit you in any material way.

edit 1 part 1: this is the worst comment section I've even seen in any Hexbear thread in all my years, except for @Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net who is as always the best of us

edit 1 part 2: generationalism is also made up, don't let people put you into boxes and further don't put yourself into a box that someone else made up for you

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[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 10 points 10 months ago
[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 10 points 10 months ago
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[-] Koa_lala@hexbear.net 10 points 10 months ago

I'm thirty now. I feel better than ever tbh. Happy to have left the 20s bullshit behind.

My favorite Madeline Pendleton rant is the one about how “you look so good for your age” is not a compliment. She’s in her late 30’s. She looks good and is almost 40. She does not look 22. You don’t have to be 22 to be attractive. And our culture’s association between young age and attractiveness is creepy af. Or at the very least, the threshold being so low is creepy af.

[-] Goadstool@hexbear.net 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Creepy and a blueprint for decades of misery. Whole reason I made this post was because I'm tired of seeing people act like they're obsolete the second they hit 30, like they're no longer attractive or able to do new things or take on challenges they couldn't accomplish when they were younger.

Inventing a reality within their own mind where the society of Logan's Run unironically had merit.

[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago

Actually yes you do.

One day i was young, then the next day i woke up and i was old. You can’t explain that.

[-] Sickos@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

I was young and then my knee made a funny sound and then I was old.

[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago

I was yound and then i got arrested 18 times. And then i started drinking. And i got old. Then i started surfing and got young again. Now my body is getting fatter and injuries are hobbling my surfing just when i am getting really good. And so again i become old. Maybe i will have a third young act in this life. Most likely not. Goodbye cruel world!

[-] flan@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago

ive been old since i was 19

[-] isame@hexbear.net 8 points 10 months ago

Fun story. I was working at a fiberglass boat factory at 18. The day of my 19th birthday I was leaned over a pan mold (think the floor of the inside of the boat kinda) and stood up to stretch my back because it was killing me. My supervisor joked that you don't get a spine til you're at least 19.

Funny enough he didn't know it was my birthday, just that I was a baby.

Now I'm 32 with a bad knee I feel old every goddamn day.

[-] Frank@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago

Pro-tip: you don't have to be retired to join the AARP. You can join and get the bennies at any age.

[-] xXthrowawayXx@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

til you go gay from being "young" to being "old"

[-] Gorillatactics@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

I think the memes are a consequence of the confusion of the people reaching or nearing thirty. They realize they're no longer 'young' and try to find a new identity by trying to appeal to their peers. But since all their peers are algorithmically suggested all they can think of is 'hello fellow old people how about those knees eh?'

[-] nat_turner_overdrive@hexbear.net 6 points 10 months ago

chomsky-yes-honey

i started turning gray around 19 and that was a long time ago

[-] D61@hexbear.net 6 points 10 months ago

To those younger than you, you're old. To those older than you, you're young.

Its the weirdest shit that hasn't stopped being weird to me since I was a teenager 25 years ago.

[-] ChaosMaterialist@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)
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