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submitted 1 year ago by Carighan@lemmy.world to c/world@lemmy.world

Artist was humiliated by the authorities and lambasted by the press after terminating a pregnancy, but refuses to be silenced

From the article:

One night, two weeks after I’d taken the pills, I was at home when suddenly there was a loud banging on my front door and shouts of “police!”.

I had just come off the phone with my psychologist. It had been a stressful time and that night I’d had a panic attack. I’ve had these many times before and I called my psychologist for help. She asked me about any new medication I’d been taking so I told her about the abortion pills.

She was calm and told me that she was calling a paramedic. Instead she called the police. Later, the recording of her conversation with the police was leaked to the press, where she can be heard telling them that I’d had an abortion and was suicidal, though I specifically told her I wasn’t.

I have a lot to say about my psychologist, none of it fit for print, but suffice to say I trusted her completely and she violated that trust and our confidentiality.

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[-] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 97 points 1 year ago

What a piece of shit doctor

[-] Caradoc879@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago

I hope she can sue the doctor for the "suicidal" part.

[-] filoria@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago
[-] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago

There was a really good podcast about how they had to sneak abortion pills into Ukraine, and the scariest part of the whole deal was getting it through Poland.

[-] bane_killgrind@kbin.social 79 points 1 year ago

They took me to the emergency department at the hospital. While I sat in a corner crying, the doctors there told the police that they could look after me and that they could leave.
This wasn’t what they wanted to hear. They took me to another hospital with a gynaecological department, where more police were waiting for me. All this time they never said a word about what I was supposed to have done wrong.
The doctors at the second hospital seemed intimidated by the police. They were told to take my blood and give me a vaginal exam. My consent didn’t seem to matter. The doctor who was examining me let me know he didn’t want to get involved. “I do not care about any of this,” he told me.
After the examination, the police got more aggressive. Female officers took me to a gynaecologist’s office and the doctor left me. They told me to strip naked but I refused to take off my knickers. They made me squat and cough in front of them. Why would they do this but to frighten and humiliate me?
They threatened me with a cavity search. With my back to the wall, crying and naked except for my knickers, I felt like a hunted animal. I screamed at them, “What do you even want from me?”

[-] Grunt4019@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago
[-] weeabooextract@lemmy.world 65 points 1 year ago

Just so we're all on the same page:

THIS HAPPENED IN JULY.

Just in case anyone wants to pin the blame on the new government.

The controversy is theoretically still ongoing for this case, but on the down low, as just one part of the backlash against the restrictions put on abortions in Poland 3 years ago.

[-] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have a lot to say about my psychologist, none of it fit for print, but suffice to say I trusted her completely and she violated that trust and our confidentiality.

Fuck it. Share it anyways. This psychologist is a piece of shit, and the fact that they weren't named in the article is bullshit.

[-] unrelatedkeg 34 points 1 year ago

Psychologist should get publically shamed to hell and back. Even if Poland doesn't have client confidentiality (and that's a big if), she still has basic ethics of her profession to uphold. Hope the courts of Poland throw this one out.

[-] girlfreddy@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago

Usual psychiatry ethics allows for reporting to the cops IF someone has said they're planning harm to themselves or others.

Kind of sounds like the psychiatrist played around with that in order to report.

Hopefully they lose their license over it but I won't hold my breath.

[-] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

played around with that

*lied

[-] Pulptastic@midwest.social 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, betrayal can go both ways. Save others from this bologna.

[-] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 48 points 1 year ago
[-] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

They keep getting slapped down every time they try.

[-] KpntAutismus@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

i hope their new government will turn this around. i stand with this woman.

this is what you get when conservatives are in power.

[-] illi@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I hope so too, but - from the article:

In my country, many women didn’t know they could not be criminalised for their abortions. Abortion laws kill women. Politicians talked about changing our laws in the run-up to the election. It became a bargaining chip. Now that they’re about to form a government, they have become silent on this issue.

[-] samokosik@lemmynsfw.com 19 points 11 months ago

Biggest issue is these stupid abortion laws exist.

[-] intelshill@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

Because Poland is backwards

[-] lurch@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 year ago

Not all of Poland tho. PIS(S) did get ~10% less votes last election, so it's getting better.

[-] anlumo@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

They're still in first place.

[-] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

wouldnt use the word backwards here, it implies its unfixable

[-] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

so this person was swatted by their psychologist. the psychologist called the police and lied to get this person raided. that's swatting.

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