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I want to get into cybersecurity. I am willing to learn about it and do the job effectively. My dumbfuck cornfed manager said they want to make sure i have a "passion" for it. No, i will not think about cybersecurity day and night like i'm in love with it, you dumb fuck middle manager.

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[–] zifnab25@hexbear.net 37 points 2 years ago

Idk, man. I think there's a genuine leftist vibe to the saying "love what you do and you'll never work a day in your life". There are definitely career paths where the pay is mediocre but the sense of fulfillment is overwhelming.

The problem is that most of these career paths are in fucking Cuba.

American businesses are, by intent or consequence, all about profit margin and growth rate. Nothing else matters because nothing else is allowed to matter. I would love to work at a business that was genuinely invested in the Good Vibes. And I know there are more than a few that cultivate that as a secondary concern. Everyone I've talked to who works at H.E.B. practically glows with approval when they talk about how that business is managed, in no small part because they honestly do seem to invest in their workforce and cultivate a certain degree of compassion towards staff. But they only get to do that shit because the firm is entirely privately owned, successfully operated, and not beholden to a bunch of vampiric outside investors. Even then, they're tethered to credit just like everyone else. And their owners are absurdly wealthy, long past the point at which their labor contributes to the operation of the firm.

It would be incredibly cool if you could invest in your career like you invest in a personal hobby or craft and not end up ruthlessly exploited. It should be that way. People having a passion for what they do shouldn't be seen as a fucking weakness in their character that some other asshole can exploit.

[–] AcidMarxist@hexbear.net 32 points 2 years ago (1 children)

tell them you wont talk about sexual matters at work volcel-kamala

[–] ULS@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 years ago

"...I think I'm starting to get passionate right now..."

[–] serpentofnumbers@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I can't stand this shit. Managers are really out here trying to push the narrative that people DESIRE with their whole being to toil away in a particular field, because when you're "passionate" about something, you don't really care about the pay. The whole fuckin spiel is doublespeak for "I want someone who will be happy to be exploited"

[–] RyanGosling@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I tell my manager that the quickest way for me to lose my passion is not getting money from it lol

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

WHAAAAAAT?!?1!?

You’re telling me that you don’t derive all your enjoyment of a job from the labor and reward of seeing the company thrive????

Seeing your boss pull into the parking lot with a brand new $90,000 BMW doesn’t instill a sense of purpose for you in the compa… I mean family?

When would you say you lost your “passion”?

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"Thats the wrong attitude. Why can't you just be a team player?"

[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

I expect an awkward meeting with HR and the boss like: "We're concerned about your passion for this career. What's going on?" Ibthink they figure if they get you to admit that you've lost interest on record, they can can you with less fear that you'll collect unemployment.

Remember kids: Always be vague about why your numbers have dropped. Say you're doing your best, act like youre taking their advice, and when it fails, say you tried it and you're sorry. If they offer a severance, read the terms and make sure it's not an admission of fault.

Those 6 months of unemployment pay are the only glimpses of freedom most of us get. Don't let them deny you your respite

[–] Yurt_Owl@hexbear.net 19 points 2 years ago

If you listen to any of the dumb takes from ThePrimeagen (some silicon valley fuckhead) he basically expects all people in any job to have a deep passion for it and dedicate their entire life to it working at 110% forever. And that anyone who doesn't do this should basically die. A lot of people in tech are completely detached from reality and I hate all of them.

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yeah I fucking hate that shit too. I just put on my corpo mask on and nod along to their deranged bullshit and respond in kind with the same buzzwords like fucking chatGPT. If it's a big company nobody actually expects true passion out of you, you just need to say the words.

[–] M68040@hexbear.net 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't really think I've had "I want to do this for eight hours a day" amounts of passion for literally anything in my life. Shit, sometimes I wonder if i've ever had sincere passion for anything in general.

[–] Venus@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

I've had that kind of passion for a variety of things throughout my life. Gardening, certain competitive games, books, and so on. Unfortunately ever since I got a job that passion has dwindled sadness

[–] Grownbravy@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago

I have a passion for being paid a healthy amount and timely

[–] CrimsonSage@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago

The problem for me is that I genuinely do love the lab work that forms the core of my job, what saps my passion is all the corporate bullshit that surrounds it. Time keeping for the bean counters, pointless corporate bureaucracy that exists solely so they can better document my every move, penny pinching, corpo speak and mba brain, and low pay. Like they seem to do whatever they can to get in the way of a genuinely interesting and, at times, fun job.

[–] davel@hexbear.net 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There were a lot of ninja-themed tech job descriptions for a while. Have they retired that?

[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 10 points 2 years ago

Maybe applicants were disappointed by the lack of opportunities to assasinate people

[–] joaomarrom@hexbear.net 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Agreed. The exception I see is if you're self employed doing something that you're legitimately passionate about. I'm saying that because I'm an amateur woodworker looking forward to the day when I can make good money from this activity, which is something that I deeply love and would gladly do all day long every day of the week, even Sundays - after all, it's what I do right now, but without getting paid for it.

It is, however, incomprehensible to me that someone would be "passionate" about a bullshit office job. It doesn't even have to be bullshit, honestly. You can even enjoy it, but how can you be passionate about it, knowing that you only get to enjoy a fraction of the fruits of your labor? Or knowing that you're just an easily replaceable cog in a soulless machine? I don't know, man. It just doesn't feel right to me.

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 12 points 2 years ago

based and hating managers pilled

Death to America

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Cyberaecurity is super boring especially if you're securing some piece of shit company you hate.And good luck finding a job in that field that pays a living wage and isn't for some piece of shit company.

Anyway, tell your boss youll show your passion for it if he sends you to defcon all expenses paid.

[–] FactuallyUnscrupulou@hexbear.net 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I think the only jobs you can truly be passionate about are the rudimentary occupations like tailoring, farming or construction. Like the minimum requirement of labor to cloth, feed and shelter yourself is fulfilling and why so many people dream of some cottage lifestyle in a small village. We still have to face the current situation that is doing those tasks within the framework of capitalism, but one can hope that will one day change.

[–] Saeculum@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

I know a lot of people working in research on shit wages who are extremely passionate about their work, to the point that they work dozens of hours of overtime every week.

I personally am passionate about legal advocacy as well, and find the work fulfilling.

Plenty of non-rudimentary tasks are necessary and fulfilling outside the framework of capitalism.

[–] ULS@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I automatically avoid job posts with this. As well as the we are a family and work-life balance bs.

personally i don't have the luxury of avoiding any job posts and i know the right answers to give them and just do that. once on the job I do agitate, educate and organize, though. the thing is, though, I also DID have a passion for my job for many years but over the years its gotten harder to really enjoy it like I used to when I was younger. I still find personal and hobby projects fun, though and get excited by tech but getting excited about being exploited is just much harder these days, even if the pay and benefits are 2-5 times better than what my friends are making.

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

So you dont apply for any jobs?

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[–] FuckyWucky@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

i think you can enjoy work. obvi fuck middle managers they don't have your best interests at heart, they want to know if you enjoy cybersec to see if you are 'productive' not because they want to see you happy.

[–] hummingspark@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

having 'passion' for your work might be coded language for 'will you work extra hard' and 'will you work outside of normal working hours to get the job done'. oh but don't worry 'it is experience'

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Me: "Yo, I'm passionate about working. I've been looking all over for a job!"

That same person: "NO! ANYONE BUT YOU! I'M PICKY!"

Ironically, job creators aren't very passionate about creating jobs. I think they just expect the work to magically do itself.

[–] Mokey@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

You have to lie to them like how they lie to you about... everything

[–] Maaj@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

Bruh I had exactly the same shit happen to me with a recruiter!! What the fuck does passion have to do with work, or in my case, the choice between enrollment in a cyber security class or cloud computing class?!? Like, fuck you, I just want to learn!!

[–] axont@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

I've always interpreted passion as meaning you'll do the job, but also take on extra duties and do it for lower pay

[–] Shinji_Ikari@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I got sorta lucky recently in that a lack of work has allowed me to get paid to produce something I've wanted to make for a while. I've been learning new skills that aren't directly related to my normal work, making decisions, and I had basically full creative control.

The feeling is weird now, normally I'd feel really passionate about it if it was in my own time, but now I only have myself to blame if something goes wrong. People are looking to me to have it done in time. It's a super cool opportunity, but somehow its still sorta ruined by work.

[–] CrimsonSage@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago (5 children)

They did a study with kindergarteners where they let them play in a room with lots of different stations with all sorts of toys and art stuff however they wanted for as long asvthey wanted. They documented the amount of time each child spent on each task/game and interviewed them to ask them what their favorite things were. Then the next day they told each child that if they spent time doing the thing they enjoyed the most, or spent the most time on, the previous day they would pay them a quarter per minute they spent doing it. They dodnt force them and the children were still free to do whatever they wanted in the toom. Basically every child stopped doing the task they were paid for. Make if that what you will.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Basically every child stopped doing the task they were paid for.

Well, at least that takes some off the pressure of doing what I like.

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[–] largerfather@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

just say yes ?

[–] Maoo@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

Just lie to them lol.

They're so far up their own asses that they think the problem at their company is that the workers aren't deeply committed to doing a ton of work as if it's fun. Let them keep their delusion, take their money, and half-ass that job like there's no tomorrow while pretending you're actually killing yourself with commitment and getting results.

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

good-lord This is where you steam a good ham.

[–] Des@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

no passion under capitalism

i would kill to work for some massive state project to mitigate the climate crisis but these don't exist

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