[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Nobody likes people not accepting responsibility for their own actions. Duh.

At the same time, who am I to say that something isn't or wasn't as hard on someone as they say? Shouldn't we believe people when they say a thing is a burden for them? Doubly so if we ourselves don't have first-hand knowledge of it, such as poverty, or race, or gender?

Yes, I have a close friend who sometimes irritates me by how she keeps saying she can't do X because Y, or failed at Z due to Q, but in the end her feelings are true and valid even if they seem irrational to me. And she's so much more than that.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 weeks ago

Would have been great 20 years ago.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 12 points 3 weeks ago

European here, if my parents needed assistance I'd do my best to help them 100%. But that's because they're my parents, they can be thrifty, I know they're not gambling addicts or spending it all on booze etc. Having to ask (not outright, but no longer strongly refusing my help or no longer dumping money on us at every opportunity to avoid inheritance taxes) would be an indicator that they're already pretty desperate.

Lots of people aren't as lucky regarding their parents.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 9 points 3 weeks ago

spaghetti monster

But does it fly?

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 8 points 3 weeks ago

It's not even limited to the US. In Finland it's called "pilluralli", "pussy-rally", and the general associations are of 18-19-year-olds of lower socioeconomical class.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 20 points 3 weeks ago

Same has happened here. While I am proud of the younger, more skittish one, it's also an indication of the old matriarch diminishing. I'll never be ready to lose her.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 19 points 2 months ago

Yeah... I kinda think that's an experience every omnivore should have. Raise something with your own hands, then kill and eat it. If you can't do that, at least you now know your hypocrisy.

I'm a hypocrite, too.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 14 points 2 months ago

Love you.

I'm sorry.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 14 points 3 months ago

There's also "The Walk" from the same makers, for us non-joggers. I tried it long ago and I think it was mostly an audio story that triggered a new chapter at some step counts.

https://thewalkgame.com/

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 13 points 7 months ago

I think that for most, this was a shift from "mildly opposed" to "mildly supportive, and if you're going to do it, do it now".

At least my pro/con list hasn't changed, just the odds. I still think we're more likely to be dragged into war somewhere far away than being attacked ourselves, and that the US is an unreliable ally. But those are acceptable risks compared to the chance of having the whole NATO having our back if there were to be war on our ground.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 18 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Condoms aren't 99% effective as contraception even if you use them perfectly, which most people don't.

[-] 211@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It comes down to how you define "soul".

Do I believe there's a consciousness that transcends death or exists separately from our physical existence, no.

But if you start talking of ship of Theseus/transponder incident/mind upload -type mental exercises, then yes, I believe "self" is an evolving pattern and a collection of experiences that could theoretically be replicated in another physical manifestation or even in a completely different medium. You could call that, too, "soul".

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