LordWiggle

joined 2 years ago
[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago

Sorry to say, but there's no app available which creates better people in your town haha

Maybe move to a city?

OK Cupid has the option to set your location manually. You can check somewhere else if there's someone nice. I hate this option, it clutters the app with Asian and African women wanting to meet someone abroad. But it may be nice for you to get better results.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Yeah that's true. About 60% of the women I see are from Asia / Africa / South America.

I wish they would disable the custom location feature to solve this clutter.

I live in The Netherlands, there are enough people here on the app to make it worth while. It's how I met my new partner.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

I'm not a big fan though. It's also a sort of social media. There are many people on there from Asia and Africa, cluttering the user base.

I had 3 matches which ended in extended conversations, but in all 3 cases (don't know if it's coincidence) they were trying to cheat on their partner. I'm poly, I don't mind sharing, but cheating on someone is not going to happen with me.

About poly, OK Cupid has the option to say you're monogamous, polyamorous (with account links possible) or open to either. So it's a great app for finding poly people or focus on mono people without matching with the poly ones (saves a conversation)

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago
[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 7 points 4 hours ago (7 children)

I like OK Cupid. It works perfectly without paying and matches are better as they are based on questions you answer and profiles contain more info. So it's less evaluating lifestock like Tinder.

There's also Bumble, it used to be that the woman needs to start talking when matched within 24h otherwise the match disappears. This is so women won't get spammed by loads of men. I heard they would change it, but I'm not sure if they actually did. It works fine without paying.

There's Boo, which I think is mostly for autistic and introvert people. Works fine with the free version.

There's Feeld, which works great without paying. The focus is mainly on sex, not so much relationship material imo.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

The Netherlands

I call my doctor, make an appointment the same day, go there, tell my story, get referred to a specialist or get meds or whatever, all covered by insurance.

Specialist: sometimes appointment within a week or 2, sometimes it takes a month. It's covered by insurance, but there's an own risk budget each year of 380 euros. So all costs up to that budget are paid by yourself, the rest is covered. But since I'm getting mental health care, I pay 380 each januari and the rest for the entire year is all covered. This year I've had a broken collarbone repaired with a metal plate with all the photos before and after, I had 2 bladder infections which needed antibiotics and I had food poisoning on holiday and intestand infection, which was all covered at home and abroad.

Insurance

I pay 180 a month. It includes dental and some extras like 9 physical therapist appointments.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Yes please! They have good music in hell. Also, in heaven there are only Christian Karens, pedophiles and antivax babies, you know how fucking annoying all those screaming babies are. And then complaining Karens on top of that.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 51 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Took us vegans a long time, but after hours in our labs we finally are ready to roll out our bio weapon.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

This is clear evidence they need more guns.

 
 

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I have no choice

 
 

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