https://haveibeenpwned.com/

You can check this site for specific/recent breaches. That said, your email may have been exposed in an older breach that's just now getting spammed as well.

yet public policy and social institutions often prevent them from being the dads they want to be

This is what I struggle with. Anytime I do something in public with my daughter, without my wife, I get awkward looks. It doesn't bring me down or stop me from spending time with my daughter but like...wtf? What would you have me do? Deny my daughter a trip to the park because Mom isn't available to go?

Having seen Devil's Tower in person I'm trying to envision how massive that tree would be

Well then...

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Switch, and never look back.

2014? Sprint? Tweet?

Damn we're getting old. Yes, you too 🫠

Take home assignments that take multiple hours sometimes, sacrificing a whole evening.

Do NOT do this.

Taking a live proficiency test is one thing, particularly if you're applying for more senior roles, but doing actual projects for free in your spare time should be a hard pass. Full stop.

is now asking all employees within 50 miles of a company office to go in at least two days a week on a hybrid schedule.

I briefly worked for a company that took this approach. The oversight they made was they had 2 offices (different teams in each), but as long as you lived within 50 miles of one of the offices, you had to come in.

Even if your team was exclusively in office 1, and you lived outside the radius of office 1 BUT were in the radius of office 2...you had to come in to office 2...and teleconference with your team in office 1 🤦