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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago

Some of you may remember, but I shaved my legs for the first time a few days ago (maybe close to a week now, yikes). I had been wanting to do that for years and years, before my egg broke. But I thought people would see it as "girly" so I didn't. I grinned and put up with it.

Chat no one has said a word about it. I have wasted years with hairy ass legs and no one even cares that they aren't hairy anymore. I mean looking back maybe I was a little too worried, but I thought for sure someone would say something. Nope.

The moral here is I am a silly girl, and am done trying to do things to appease others (they might not even care!).

[-] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 16 points 5 months ago

i think realizing people don't give a shit what i do was equally freeing and sad. you wanna believe everyone is a little bit thoughtful but everyone is really just on autopilot. you can do almost anything without anyone noticing

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Definitely feels freeing right now, but yea might feel sad later. I wonder if people would notice less arm hair lea-think

[-] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 7 points 5 months ago

There is science to be done!

[-] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

only one way to find out!

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Told you

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

soviet-chad With luck this will bolster your confidence!! Hopefully if anyone does ever say something you can just not worry, glad to hear it's gone well though. See, you deserve it!

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

It definitely has bolstered my confidence aubrey-happy I'll keep pushing. And yes, I do deserve it!

[-] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Oh noes! Guess you're a qt.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 5 months ago

ohnoes not a qt yet, but in the future sicko-wistful

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