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[-] kristina@hexbear.net 92 points 1 year ago
[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 109 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Like, we all know each other and have an ACTUAL COMMUNITY. Of course we do.

These liberals see each other as nothing, remember nobody, and build no unique culture of their own. They have no relationships with each other. They don't get it. We actually like each other. I care about people here you liberal losers.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 73 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

@randint@lemm.ee I want you to read this.

You need to understand that we've all been here 3 years already, we know each other, care about each other, have a real community with a real unique culture forged through bonds and laughs and drama and dumb shit. We have an actual community, not just a bunch of people that don't know each other who press updoot and downdoot and generally just see one another as faceless individuals. We trust each other and genuinely like each other.

I genuinely hope that you can create something like it and come to care about the other posters around you in time. You should try to. Build something more meaningful than a reddit clone where everyone treats everyone like a bunch of faceless anons, build a real community.

[-] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

I love you all powercry-1 meow-hug

[-] Sphere@hexbear.net 32 points 1 year ago

lol they chose instead to post this comment to someone who was arguing with me. I'm honored tbh

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 55 points 1 year ago

Liberals actually went along with Fukuyama's "you will pay for your identity markers and you will like it" smugposting. It's probably a part of why they tend to have walls of Funko Pops and need to tell you about the specific craft beer they sip while writing editorials. maybe-later-honey

[-] Grimble@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

they tend to have walls of Funko Pops and need to tell you about the specific craft beer they sip while writing editorials.

I hate how this isn't even a contrived stereotype anymore. Have literally met these types and it's all they have to justify their "everyone's experience is unique!" slogans

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

"everyone's experience is unique!"

There are a staggering number of combinations of identity markers you can pay for! It's like the NFTs of the offline world! so-true

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

you see, consumption is actually identity. the more you consume, the more idententer you are. self-actualization means boxing yourself within the narrow confines of what brands want to sell to you. why yes, I am very smart.

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

self-actualization means boxing yourself within the narrow confines of what brands want to sell to you

If you put on the glasses, that's directly the message of contemporary advertisements. "Buy brand! Brand is superior to competing brand! Look at this fizzy cleaning animation!" tactics are long gone. Brands are now purchased identities and lifestyle signifiers and that's much worse. yea

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 48 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

From what I've seen, there's no real difference between lemmy.ml, lemm.ee, and lemmy.world. They're all the same attempt at trying to be a Reddit clone with the same Reddit defaults as comms. If you merge all three instances together and merge the comms that they share, they would be absolutely zero difference. I guess lemmy.ml is lemm.ee with socialist characteristics while lemmy.world is lemm.ee with fascist characteristics. To me, the biggest difference between those instances is how they see us and whether they are federated with us.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 50 points 1 year ago

There are definite differences.

Lemmy.ml has moderation that's closer to the moderation here but without kicking people out for being libs. Hate is well moderated.

Lemm.ee is the closest to emulating reddit while remaining a real form of politically neutral. Hate is well moderated.

lemmy.world is emulating reddit, including its censorship of the left. Hate is badly moderated. Reports of actual transphobia go ignored.

Your "characteristics" assessment isn't really that far off though. I am an advocate of lemm.ee and would prefer for it to become the largest. Lemmy.ml will become leftist in the longterm in my opinion, Hexbear influence is now very significant on it.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago

It's just a lot of thoughts going through my head since federation. I feel like there's going to be one Reddit clone that will absorb members from all the other would-be clones. Most people will choose the largest Reddit clone by default, which will snowball until there's only one clone left. Right now, the favored Reddit clone is lemmy.world, but the admins are apparently paranoid about us creating wrecker alts to ruin their shitty instance, so that could be a source of instability. I agree about lemmy.ml. For lemm.me, I've noticed a lot of banned users come from that instance and it feels like we get the most pushback from them. I wouldn't be surprised if they eventually defederate from us, at which point lemmy.world would just completely absorb lemm.me's users. From the perspective of an incredulous lib who doesn't understand fascism even when it's biting them in the ass, the only difference between lemm.me and lemmy.world is one instance federates with Hexbear while the other one doesn't and once the instance that federates with Hexbear no longer does so, lemm.me just becomes a smaller lemmy.world. I dunno, it's just a thought I have.

As an aside, here's an interesting thread in beehaw about whether they should just defederate. I think most people have predicted beehaw would eventually wither away, but I didn't expect the process to happen this fast. It's also very interesting how even the libs at beehaw recognize some of the flaws of Reddit (they've taken out downvotes like us for largely the same reasons). They at least understand that trying to recreate Reddit when Reddit already exists is a terrible idea. However, being libs, they are hampered by having a terrible intellectual framework. They also have a huge civility fetish such as some loser in that same thread shamelessly admitting they would deal with a transphobe than some angry person.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

lol they're down to 290 users/day. Their decision to defederate so much has fucked them.

Hexbear has very low user churn so we get away with low growth sources to maintain community health. They on the other hand have very high user churn due to users having no political motive for being there.

On Lemmy as an independent instance you need to solve this or you die.

For lemm.me, I've noticed a lot of banned users come from that instance and it feels like we get the most pushback from them. I wouldn't be surprised if they eventually defederate from us

My experience with the instance owner has been good. They are committed to neutrality while maintaining strong hate moderation. I don't think they will defed, particularly if they see us as people promoting them because we prefer them to lemmyworld being dominant, but I've been wrong before.

[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 10 points 1 year ago

How "gated" is that community? As in: How hard would it be to grow into that community? If I migrated to hexbear, would I be treated with suspicion as an outsider, with wary indifference, or welcomed immediately?

The arguments and descriptors I see here are appealing, but I've just recently started using Lemmy and I've got this lingering sense of not belonging here (yet), hence ny insecurity.

[-] TillieNeuen@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

We love new users! Like the other reply says, there are some things we won't bend on, but below that there are a lot of differing opinions. Come hang out with us for a while, comment on some posts, and see how it feels.

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

Ngl the quickest way to properly become part of the hexbear community in order of like, level of commitment required is probably to join, do like an intro post or something in c/chapotraphouse, maybe join the unofficial hexbear mastodon instance (toots.matapacos.dog) and maybe also like trans your gender or something

Also post and comment stuff ofc <3

[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 9 points 1 year ago

Do I have to trans my gender? Can't I just, like, not have one at all? I'd hate to lug something around I don't need anyway.

Also, what the hell is that instance name?

Thanks for the pointers though!

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah being agender is cool too <3 the trans thing was only a joke really because so many of us are queer

And the instance is named after a south American dog that used to go around biting cops at protest lol

[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah being agender is cool too <3 the trans thing was only a joke really because so many of us are queer

Oh I figured, I just wanted to make a joke of my own at the expense of gender :D

a south American dog that used to go around biting cops at protest lol

Huh, I wonder why. Did they smell of pork? ;-)

[-] barrbaric@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

So long as you follow the Hexbear party line you'll be welcomed with open arms. All you have to do is be on the far left, don't be sectarian, oppose the US and its propaganda, and love your trans comrades.

Oh, and don't mention outdoor cats.

[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 6 points 1 year ago

Uh... but you did just mention the thing you're telling me not to mention.
I prefer indoor cats anyway.

With "don't be sectarian" I'm guessing you mean "don't start fights over the specific flavour of lefty"? By some definition, willingness to bash the fash would also be considered sectarian, hence the question.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

bashing the fash is table stakes. we ban anything even tangentially pro-fash. don't be sectarian refers to useless inter-leftist infighting, which we don't allow.

the outdoor cats thing is a joke about the very first argument on the website that escalated into a full-blown struggle session (whether vegans stop being vegans if they own outdoor cats - I can't even pretend to understand the argument).

[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 4 points 1 year ago

bashing the fash is table stakes. we ban anything even tangentially pro-fash.

Good.

don't be sectarian refers to useless inter-leftist infighting, which we don't allow.

Good

the outdoor cats thing is a joke about the very first argument on the website that escalated into a full-blown struggle session (whether vegans stop being vegans if they own outdoor cats - I can't even pretend to understand the argument).

Uh... I think I can, but I'm scared to check the logic. Might fry a circuit or three.

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago
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