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Def not me only just finding out that vagina-havers can pee standing up. Humans are truly magical creatures.Thanks for answering so thoroughly and being so patient. That all seems really good and I kind of think i want it.
Do you mind me just asking a little more about recovery? How long were you bedbound for? Did you have someone to look after you to begin with? How long until you were able to go up and down stairs and stand long enough to shower and prepare food? Did you need a ring cushion to sit down (I guess there's a lot of swelling in the whole surrounding area)? If you work out/cycle/run, how long until you were able to start again?
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I was up and walking day after surgery! They get you to walk, early mobilization helps with keeping inflammation down - which means better healing and less pain. I was walking up and down a couple flights of stairs I think... a couple days after surgery? And then at home, my apartment is on the 6th floor - and I used the stairs.I was never bedbound or strict bedrest, closest was the first day after. I didn't move tons for the first month, besides bed or couch. Sitting did hurt - they had little cushion rings for us at the recovery house but I do wish I had my own for the flight home and then for the first few weeks. I took a class during recovery, it was only an hour but it definitely felt a little sore the first couple weeks.
I had my mom with me the first week, my sister helped with groceries or chores, I also had a lot of friends who helped with tasks for the first couple months but I stopped needing much of any help after about 6 weeks. It was a strict 10 lbs lifting limit, which can be like a big house cat - so it doesnt take much to stress the surgery site and stitches that first critical month. I showered at the recovery house! It was very nice. So maybe a few days or a week in?
I didnt start working out again until after the first month, and then it was very gentle bodyweight stuff the next two months. But I stayed active with walking, stairs, etc. I stayed active the whole time, starting from post op day 1 or 2.
As much as recovery sucks, it is a temporary part of your life - and then the rest is, you have a vagina, and jts just there~ ♡
Amazing. Tysm for all of this. I'm so happy for you!