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Fellas, this proves we're not the only dumb ones when it comes to noticing someone is into us.
Yea he's into you. Either that or he's trying to get into your pants really quickly. Up to you to figure that out, whether he just wants to fuck or if he wants an actual nice relationship.
Yeah, I'd be careful with this one. It's pretty love-bomby, which at this stage in my life just stands out as a red flag.
That said, you're both young, so he may be legit and just not learned how to not be over the top when into someone lol.
Yea doing all that after seeing a girl for about 2 days is a red flag to me too. I mean, it's typical for their age but to me it's still a sign of hella immaturity and perhaps even shallowness.
This isn't love bombing lol
This is a natural progression. You don't have to wait a month after meeting someone to go on a date.
I think the paying for everything before they really even met is a little odd, but it matters on how it was done.
Presuming they're both ~19, I'm going with potentially <-> likely uh, all of the above, + completely terrified.
First loves are... pretty confusing.
And whether she actually likes him.
Her thinking this is one thing but saying it is fully different. She's into him too for sure.
I can't stop thinking about my neighbour, but that's because she's the most obnoxious woman I've ever met.
yea ig context matters
Many in this thread seems to be assuming “she” but was that stated?
Damn straight people defaultism :(
Same way US-Americans don't feel the need to specify that they're talking about the USA on international sites (nationality being quite relevant to this kind of question), heterosexual people generally don't feel the need the need to state that they're talking about a heterosexual relationship. Bit of a different dynamic if OP is male or enby.
We don't give a damn