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Ya girl is getting the hell out of [red state] and moving to [city in blue state] this week! Will edit mega with more later perhaps.
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Yeah that sounds as if you're under a ton of pressure. There comes a point where the closet gets unbearable and you just need to come out, it's good that you are aware of that. The first steps are the scariest, but it gets easier once you've taken that leap. You do not need to do all of it at once. It sounds as if your friend group is a very safe bet bc they are already accepting of gender diverse people, so i recommend starting there, one by one. Build a little support network. Then move up to telling your parents, then maybe your wider family. Work and day to day life sounds hardest, you should save that until you are secure and have settled in. But even then, being out to some people and having a space where you're accepted for who you are will take a massive burden off your back. I hope it all goes well for you.