Despite knowing this group is basically just chit chat and less support I always go and especially when I'm doing poorly, hoping for support, instead everyone just having a grand old time chit chatting. Why do I keep doing this to myself. I should just stop expecting/hoping for support
this post was submitted on 03 Aug 2026
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Hey Xia, thank you. I appreciate you.
A girl wants to come over and show me how to play Magic The Gathering. I have what I think is a head cold. I havent been sick in like two years. Turning her down again sucks.
A girl wants to come over and show me how to play Magic The Gathering.
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
irresistible track so romantic and captures yearning so well
i will respond with Crying
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biphobia/homophobia/general queerphobia
Another round of cishet women saying they would never date a bi man has been going around, literally every reason is just straight homophobia of course. While I'm obviously not looking to date cishet women, it is disheartening how homophobic they are.
A brief sex post before the return of sh posting:
Like 10% of the time I wonder if I'm ace before being the absolute horninestremovedalive. Like seriously how could I have thought I was ace.
Wth they added b**** to the slur filter? Smh
Yeah it was added a while ago~
Now you have to say nice things about yourself instead πβ¨οΈ
Huh, I must have forgot or just not called myself aremovedin a while
well I don't have nice things to say about myself 
You are a very very kind person, super supportive of others in this community. You managed to hold a job, save up money, help people get hrt. Despite everything, you're holding on and making progress, and you helped me to make quite a bit of progress too.
It makes me happy when I read your comments and you seem to be doing well, or at least excitedabout something you're doing. I hope you can learn to see the nice things in you.
cw: SI and a little thanks too
If I had not gotten access to HRT I would probably already be gone. The only reason I'm able to feel decent in my body is in the little vial in my drawer, so thank you so much for helping me out with this, really. You can safely say one extra trans girl is alive because of you
I cried a little while writing this not going to lie
You went out of your way to help me figure my way through getting ahold of HRT, unasked, because you noticed that I was super stressed about it. That was super kind. So, I think of you as a kind person :)
Thank you. I actually forgot I helped you with that.
Thank you :)
I've lurked these threads a little before coming out here, but you sound like you've made more progress than you give yourself credit for. You've been on HRT for almost a year; you're dressing femme in public (even if you boymode a lot for survival); hell, even buying women's clothes takes guts; you've come out to your asshole friends even though they're assholes. All while living in a red state!
Maybe it's because I only admitted to myself a month or so ago and repressed so deeply for three decades that I never even experimented with my gender presentation, but what you've done so far sounds like so fucking much. You've got this.
you're dressing femme in public (even if you boymode a lot for survival); hell, even buying women's clothes takes guts
You are completely mistaken, I have never dressed fem even in private, have not bought women's clothes. I've taken hrt for a little bit and yes I came out to my couple of friends. I was thinking of going out fem for the first time but backed down because my dysphoria got really bad again.
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Hmmm... well let's see, you're quite kind, you're pretty smart, you're more resilient than you let on, maybe everyone else should add on the nice things they like about you~
Always appreciate you Terminal, thank you.
I think I hit a blood vessel this injection since I usually don't bleed and never as much as I just did. I actually had to lie down so I didn't faint; delicate flower that I am. I think my nervous system just decided to go "Oh you took damage? Say good night"
I can't express enough how much I hate all of this.
Briefly touched my savings goal before the move, although with Ren fair and other shit this weekend I will be going back under. Good attempt I guess.
starts rapping about how you shouldn't eat bay leaves, not because they're poisonous but because the spines may cause intestinal damage if consumed
Iβm in my note taking arc. Iβm such a studypilled learncel.
Okay, my gf just called me and she's feeling better after a restful night
Transmasc meme!
world war one tanks are so weird i love them
like this thing is so bizarre and fully staffed had a crew of 18 but that's charming to me
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is it good or bad to be categorizing/judging all the ways to cope
illness coping, overthinking
is it good or bad coping when youre laughing from the mild delirium of the chronic exhaustion and pain. im leaning good.
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good timing that i have a therapy session today at least lol
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is it good or bad to be categorizing every little thing i do as good or bad for my self improvement
Being out for a long time, past the early and middle and late stage changes HRT does (its been 6 years for me!), finished the big surgery, its an odd feeling to be like... done? Of course, Im not, but so much of my life was consumed by the next waitlist, the next call, the next form, the next med switch and now its just the rest of my life. Its a nice feeling!
i once shared a quote from an academic book on trans-ness that described transition as akin to a career, as an active process that we work at consistently, but i never imagined that could⦠end? idk im a long way out but that still is wild
found the quote!
This shit really is a fucking career tbh. Except you don't get paid. So it's more like an internship of learning to woman.
Except you don't get paid
In fact u statistically get paid less
Negative salary, it reduces how much you get paid from other occupations
You get paid in experience (Good)
beat me to the joke lmao
Worst career I could have picked
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