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Blahaj admin defending a blatant transphobe
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this post was submitted on 26 Aug 2023
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Multiple people calling you dude/man/guy I bet they dont tell people they had sex with a dude/guy last night unless they are gay.
the user mewtwo is a reactionary asshole who states that anyone who disagrees with them is not really trans/queer/POC denying their identity because they disagree
the user assuming everyone is male on the internet is a clear-cut case of transphobia and simialr to mewtwo gatekeeping identity based on if you are the right kind of political.
Don't worry I'm sure they will get a stern talking to by Ada, real great community she is developing over there.
Ada's going to be shocked when she finds out the user I told her was being transphobic is a transphobe. How could she have known, why didn't anyone tell her!? /s
lmfao i encountered a lib who said "dude" is gender neutral somehow. to make matters worse said lib was an enby ๐๐๐
also i pretty much just switched to using โhey yโallโ unless iโm specifically greeting a collective of guys/girls/enbies, since โhey guysโ still comes off as a bit weird to me. like, iโm not a
---wtfI still say "hey guys" and "bye guys" just out of sheer reflex
Yea I have been working very hard to remove guys from my speech. Currently liking "folks" a lot.
I agree with folks. Northern anglos saying y'all is
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I'm giving every northerner a "y'all" pass. Ur welcome, it's simply superior
Only if you teach them how to use it properly at least
hey! i'm not a "northern anglo" ๐ค๐ค๐ค
Methinks the lady doth protest too much
nooo~ooo~~...~ ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
i like "friends"
hello friends!
its nice
I use folks with my students and in general. It's a good one.
Comrades is fun with friend groups who are left though.
heheh
now its time to call everyone gamers
I've slowly been replacing 'guys' with 'comrades' and it's worked quite well
Oh I should try to do that more!
South Park brained "nonpolitical" "centrist" chuds also like to say "dude" and piously claim that it isn't gendered.
But I've heard (non-chud) people say "dude" to refer to the person they're talking to in a gender neutral way. As an interjection, mostly.
I don't have any clips to share but I'm positive that Anne from Amphibia calls all her friends "dude"
I agree, there's a lot of people out there that sincerely use dude and guy neutrally. It doesn't come off very well in text but it's cool in person, the vibes are chill. Though I completely understand why a lot of people don't like it.
And this is a tangent, but my understanding of the word "man" is that it originally meant "person" while the words for adult male and adult female were "were" and "wif" respectively. Then "man" started being used in place of "were", which fell out of use. And for some reason "wif" became "wifman" and eventually "woman".
This boat has long since sailed but I think it's interesting that "man" used to be a gender neutralish word (boys were still the implied default I think).
"Hey everybody," has been my default for a while now. I don't understand what's so hard about making that the norm for some people.
If I want to be a bombastic show-off on stage (which I like to do sometimes!), I'll open with, "Welcome, one and all, to... THE THINGY!"
This isn't rocket surgery. Even an old asshole like me can be inclusive with next to zero effort.
I like "Howdy, folks ๐ค "
"Hey y'all" for similar cowboy effect
Alternatively:
Surely the precise meaning of words like dude, guys etc. is dialect and audience dependant? Use of English can very considerably just across the US and more so internationally.