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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (15 children)

I'm looking forward to the day when social media is heavily regulated and age-gated.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 hours ago

Already happening in some places, like Australia. Though I'm not sure if they'll actually be able to enforce it.

[–] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I'm looking forward to the police kicking in my door and typing my keys for me. jfc.

[–] RaoulDuke25@lemmy.dbzer0.com 99 points 1 day ago (41 children)

Or parents can do their job. We have to suffer with age verification bullshit laws that's just there to have us all in a database.

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 4 points 9 hours ago

One lawmaker proposed a law that would make it illegal to allow your children to see "drag" so none of this has to deal with parents doing their jobs and everything to deal with giving Nazis control over what other people are allowed to see

[–] grue@lemmy.world 59 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (10 children)

Not having it be regulated makes it a lot harder for parents to do their job, because the kids with responsible parents are getting peer-pressured by the kids with irresponsible parents.

Or put another way: you're not making parents do their jobs; you're making their jobs impossible by forcing them to choose between ruining their kid's mental health by letting her be exposed to social media, or ruin her mental health by forcing her to be ostracised for not using social media.

The only way to have a successful outcome is to force everyone else's kids not to use it, not just your own, and no amount of rugged individualist good parenting can accomplish that by itself!

That said, I am extremely sympathetic to the arguments against age verification laws too, which is why my preferred solution would be to fucking outlaw and destroy corporate social media entirely, for kids and adults alike!

[–] PolarKraken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You are exactly right. We're all in this ugly, trapped situation, together, like it or not.

As a parent, do you remove the obviously ruinous toxins from the kiddo's environment, entirely? Seems like the only sensible choice.

But then again...for the kid, few things could feel worse. An entire childhood spent alienated from their peers? Permanently out of the loop, to where that becomes the personality trait noticed and remembered by others?

What a horrible bargain, I completely hate it.

"Well, a little hideous poison for you, routinely, I guess, dear. I wouldn't want you to end up weird, after all..."

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 5 points 1 day ago

Agreed. Just the peer pressure for having a smartphone at all is immense. Some kids have one below the age of 10. That is absolutely insane to me.

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[–] Zoot@reddthat.com 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh won't someone think of the parents though?! How can they be expected to parent their own children, oh the humanity

[–] Spaniard@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

It's not their childrens they belong to the State / Corporations / System

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

best thing on that front is same fix for most of the working classes problems...

-more pay

-shift to 6hr/4d work week

-actually invest in education

most people are good, amd would probably love to spend more time with their family, but in the US especially they're overworked and underpaid, one accident away destitution

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[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Age gated? You'd submit your driver's license or identity to these sites?

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 10 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

It's already started, for porn. The kids don't have to prove their age, they don't have proper ID. So EVERYONE ELSE has to prove THEIR ages, and if you can't, you are assumed to be underage.

See how well that works for the Nazis? Now they get to identify EVERYBODY who is on the Internet with their legal IDs, and they will know exactly who posted that nasty meme of Trump.

But it's okay, because it protects the children.

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

Exactly. I don't think it's a surprise this all aligns with companies like palantir collecting people's images into their database. I have a feeling on the backend these identities will all be used to track people online. Photos of faces and their identities is about to become a hot commodity.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Photos aren't going to help them track people online, that's to track people in real life. With a database of images, they can use facial recognition software to track people wherever they go. Right now, they only have legal access to mug shots, which is all they should have. But with a database of normal citizens, they can track ANYBODY, and they don't have the right to do that.

Imagine if your employer, or a stalker, or some HOA bitch, or overzealous law enforcement, or a lawyer, or an insurance company, etc. wants to hire them to see what you are up to?

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I don't see how what we're saying is different?

They're going to tie people to their online activities as well as offline. If anyone shows up to a protest, they'll be able to take photos and search for every account you are associated with. Think about the smear they could create with Alex if they had this fully operational now.

[–] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 16 hours ago

But it’s okay, because it protects the ~~children.~~ casino advertisements.

Australia's Social Media Ban is a Win for Gambling Companies

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 17 hours ago

While the ID shit is godawful, that's not at all how it works in any implementation out there right now. There have even been multiple breaches of these systems, further demonstrating their issues, but you know what hasn't been in any of the breaches/leaks?

Direct connection between ID and uniquely identifiable user information.

If I'm wrong about this I'd love to know, but as far as I am aware the ID leaks have not had shit like email address attached.

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 day ago (19 children)

Yeah, and that's how you get shitty age verification laws.

It's a double edged sword

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