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Hai everybody! :3

We haven't been around much lately, but we've missed you all <3

As much as we enjoy talking about electromagnetism and the like, we're really feeling trans joy as the theme for this mega post. And we'd love to hear some of the things that have brought you all some joy lately (without doxxing yourselves of course).

Something that is bringing us a lot of joy right now is seeing the local trans community finding each other and making joy for ourselves. They're planning events, going out, finding love and friendship, and refusing to allow our circumstances prevent us from enjoying life and having fun as much as possible. And we're part of it! We've been doing the same! And it doesn't just make this life tolerable in the face of all the bad stuff happening, it's making this life beautiful and filled with love and happiness.

In order to try to get back in the habit of participating here, we're going to try to at least post one bit of trans joy every day here this week.


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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 8 hours ago

Idk what's going on with lemmygrad but I couldn't see newly added hexbear comments ...

Sorry for another negative post (sigh ...)

cw:mental health discussion + suicide

About my mental illnesses (lol), I feel like I'm collecting them like pokemon (the actual reason is comorbidity, I know). I think I got some mild form of DID? My psychologist brought it up and asked me questions when I told him the voice in my head told me to kill myself.

I hadn't even told him about the part where during my suicide spiraling, I felt like there was an alternative version of me trying to kill me and stop me from seeking help and was controlling my body. That was pretty spooky. Like sleep paralysis, except the sleep demon is inside you (skeleton-guns-akimbo ) ...

It would also explain my incredibly severe mood swings and changes in thoughts. Or would it? I ain't got a clue and even if I learn how this shit works*, it's not like I can afford healthcare.

On the flip side, when I said to myself "do it for her" where "her" referred to some specific personality in me, I felt pretty good and motivated.

Hmm ... it might explain a little bit of my genderfluidity and feeling like "I'm loosing my god damn mind" and talking to myself.

But also .... I might just be loosing it and not have any DID at all.

(I hate thinking can't I just not exist anymore? So much easier than being alive)

*no need to make excuses, I should just try to learn