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Hai everybody! :3
We haven't been around much lately, but we've missed you all <3
As much as we enjoy talking about electromagnetism and the like, we're really feeling trans joy as the theme for this mega post. And we'd love to hear some of the things that have brought you all some joy lately (without doxxing yourselves of course).
Something that is bringing us a lot of joy right now is seeing the local trans community finding each other and making joy for ourselves. They're planning events, going out, finding love and friendship, and refusing to allow our circumstances prevent us from enjoying life and having fun as much as possible. And we're part of it! We've been doing the same! And it doesn't just make this life tolerable in the face of all the bad stuff happening, it's making this life beautiful and filled with love and happiness.
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Terrible ideas + mental health
I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with being in the closet. It's doing a lot of harm to me. I'm having bad ideas, not the self-harm type, but things like wanting to destroy my guy clothes, wanting to shave my head to draw attention. Wanting to pretend I'm having a memory lapse and that I think I've always been a girl and don't know why my body isn't 100% female. All of these are bad ideas that would accomplish nothing, but get me out of the closet in some way or the other. I think I need to come out and I do not know how, or what would be the best way to have less friction.Maybe just starting to buy feminine clothing and acting confident enough so that no one questions me isn't a terrible idea, at least not as much as pretending I have some sort of gender amnesia.
I recommend throwing out all your old underwear and just going to women's underwear full time it definitely helped me combat dysphoria back when I was still boymoding.
tips for womens underwear? styles mostly, I'm lost on what works
ngl I tried women's to see if that would make me feel better and its so uncomfortable and reminds me of everything way too much to help me.
I had this problem recently so I bought pink underwear made for gay boys
gay boy fashion is an angle I've been taking while boymoding, lowkey works
I can't do that without leaving the closet
I live with my parents
Ooohhhh that sucks! Would your parents freak if you painted your nails?
No, I do paint my nails frequently. I also have some not so masc clothing, like crop tops. But they would definitely freak out if I had panties and bras. That's why I've been thinking about getting fem clothes, except underwear and just act confidently about it, they might be completely unable to confront me
Understandable, good luck!