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[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 9 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

My only critique is that the pebbling (gift) row has the giving vs receiving columns swapped compared to the rest of the table. The best way to ask is likely something to the effect of "I'm such a trinket / knickknack person. I love little stuff like stickers / keychains / little figurines as gifts!" (or whatever your thing is).

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

never heard that term and I love it

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

that makes it even cuter

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

The ones with the females that hoard courting stones (gifted as a symbol of nest building prowess by prospective mates) and effectively use them as a rudimentary currency for prostitution, you mean? Send a little more transactional than the idiom implies, NGL.

[–] jdr@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

What do you expect them to use? Snow? Bitcoin?

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 hours ago

Are you implying that currency is fluid, but prostitution is integral to their culture?