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Or do people think that Lemmy is a neutral, open-minded, safe community? Not like evil Reddit.

EDIT: Talking about mainstream instances like ml or world.

See examples of violent comments towards me and instead of mods removing their comments, they removed mine.

The comment that the all caps person was replying to was me saying that there are non-human targets. Users were assuming I want to kill people and turns out they are the ones that want to kill.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I belive in blocking rather than subscribing. I look at all and see plenty of content and interaction.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

i get it, but I also don't want to create an echo chamber for myself and be blind to parts of the world.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

im like 100% fine with it. As I said in real life I decide to frequent places I like and avoid places I don't and I never worried about that putting me in an echo chamber. Plus that is limited to stuff local to me as opposed to everything available across the world. Why would I feel that way about the internet?

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I just need to know what's going on with people. the good and the bad, so I can gauge what's going on with the world.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

yeah its like after work the first place you want to hit is that one with the jerk bouncer who makes fun of you and suggests he won't let you in and insist you go change your shirt. The one with the nazis and facists who talk your ear off on how we need solutions for some people. Good or bad its important to know. Insert whatever other crap needs to be known. I don't get my news from here. I might encounter it but I don't expect to be informed by randos on the internet. No offense to you or anyone else. I just don't get how people don't treat social media like they do real life.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

i don't get news from here either. i just don't want to be blind to what's going on. i've already blocked ml, but i'm glad i know it and its users exist and what they're like. i wouldn't spend my weekends in conservative spaces, but i'm not opposed to having conversations with or being around conservative people. good to have perspective for why people are the way they are instead of just the headlines read and then grouping people into buckets.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

blocking instances is a bit tricky as I found out. Blocking users removes posts and replies from the users you block and blocking communities filters them and their posts and such from out of your feed. When you block instances you are blocking all communities and users of that instance. I wish the blocking for instances would allow you to choose users or communities or both.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

Hm. I’ll have to play with it a bit and see.

[–] eta@feddit.org 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

You can always create more than one account. You could have one to look at stuff you like where you block everything else and another for looking at the rest.

Getting bombarded with negativity all the time is much more destructive than choosing when you interact with it.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

That’s a good idea