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I don't think you're going to find anyone that admits to smelling bad. I assume people who smell bad do it because they don't know that they smell, so they don't try to change anything.
Yep, that's likely the problem with most people. It's nothing you usually talk about and people won't change problems they aren't aware off. We should probably normalize talking about it without anyone being offended.
I would, and I do.
Tl;Dr: depression
Not true for me. I have no job, and I've accepted after over 350 applications that I won't be getting one any time soon. I just this week got my first in-person interview (although I've had a few online/phone ones), again after over 350 applications, so I'm basically only ever around my family for the least amount of time possible.
Why bother doing anything that isn't fun or doesn't actively contribute to my survival? If I have to appear in person, I can clean up in time anyways. But we both know that's not going to happen anytime soon.
When I'm depressed like this, it is usually until I start to smell myself that I wait, because after that it just becomes annoying. To be clear, I do not prefer BO. Sorry if that's TMI.
Actually, I saw two people saying they prefer BO. Bewildering admission if you ask me
Yeah that weirded me out too. Comes across as someone making excuses for not wanting to practice basic hygiene though.
I prefer it to perfume.
And I saw someone being an asshole regarding their preferences.
Preferences?
Not stinking up a whole room goes beyond a preference into a biohazard warning.
Make that two, I suppose.
What is it with this extremism? People don't instantly turn into heaps of rotting garbage the moment they neglect to put some chemicals on their underarms.
extremism ._.
Yes. Is "biohazard warning" not hyperbolic in the extreme?
So, expecting basic hygiene from people is extremism now?
No, calling a smell that you find unpleasant a "biohazard" is extreme.
If, hypothetically, I found body piercings to be distasteful, wouldn't it be kind of an overreaction for me to demand that paramedics come fix the "stab wounds" on people with piercings that I encounter?
I mean actual shit smell is a biohazard, though. Like if someone didn't wipe well enough, that's a biohazard (very minor, but still).
Covering that up with perfume wouldn’t help though.