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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Something that has bothered me since the dawn of mainstream internet adoption: the need to reinforce that you're stating your opinion. I shouldn't have to say "I don't personally like Pearl Jam, I think they're trash, but that's my opinion". I should just be able to say "Pearl Jam sucks." and based on the fact that there is no objective measure of musical quality one could imply that this is a statement of my personal opinion because I'm the person who fucking said it. Certain assertions are categorically opinion and not fact and the inability or unwillingness to perform this very basic form of reading comprehension seems lost as soon as someone is online.

[–] blobjim@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's something people do in real life too, it's not an internet thing. It's a being courteous thing and indicating that you respect other people's opinions to the contrary.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

A lot less and this is partially due to it being an internet thing for 20 years

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

MauLer ruined objectivity/subjectivity for everybody

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I remember this in like 2002

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

True & understandable, I think Long Man is the first time I've seen someone stretch and rend the definitions of those concepts in public though.

Does the interweb just make people unreasonable, then? Anonymity etc?

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

I think early on it was a bunch of people who hadn't read much before using the internet and were bad at inferring or implying tone in writing and then it became normal over time

[–] CloutAtlas@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can say with full confidence that Train objectively sucks. Its not only my opinion, it's the correct take.

"So gangsta, I'm so thug" shit lyrics from a shit artist.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

There's bands and stuff I don't like, but Train makes me angry in like not a fun listening to punk way but like, I'm mad at the song kinda way

[–] Lerios@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Pearl Jam sucks

meow-tableflip angery

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

True. Maybe it's to separate themselves from "[Music Artist] is OBJECTIVELY TRASH" posting

[–] angrytoadnoises@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

what if they're saying in my honest opinion and not in my humble opinion

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] angrytoadnoises@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 year ago

bros wouldn't do that to me, their opinion was honest, they even said

finding out otherwise would certainly humble me

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait, the H was for humble this entire time? Holy fuck I must’ve come off as pretentious a few times without realizing it.

I always read the H as honest.

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also 'TBQH' fills most of that whole niche TBQH

[–] ClimateChangeAnxiety@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’ve always read that as “in my honest opinion”

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

For that I always put [most sincere voice] but for some reason people take it the wrong way

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

As a real big autist who's had a long string of really fucking bad interactions online since I was ten, I usually don't say "IMO" but the more I suspect I'm gonna piss people off, the more IMOs I will sprinkle in as a hail mary in an attempt not to have furious motherfuckers filling up my DMs.

[–] Rojo27@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Uh, well IMHO I think you are wrongi-think-that

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I sentence you to execution

[–] Rojo27@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm sorry my leige, b-b-but you... I can't do this anymorewalter-breakdown

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

[dies of gout and hemophilia] [my successor is feeble from sucking on rocks that unknowingly contain lead we believe are medicinal] [you are freed from the gaol by a Jacquerie by the weekend]

[–] Feinsteins_Ghost@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

your leige

sounds like someone is a fan of feudalism over here!

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah I think it's good when I read Varoufakis's stuff about techno feudalism I put down my visor and prepare to fulfill my duties for Peter Thiel

[–] Gorb@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

IMHO you should put me in the oubliette my liege

[–] 1917isnow@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

Im gonna read it like ur a ho

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

What if it's lower case? imho