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I LOVE KETAMINEEEEEEEEE I LOVE DRAG SHOWS I LOVE MY FRIENDS I LOVE HAVING A ROLL OF TRANS STICKERS WITH ME AT ALL TIMES AND LEAVING THEM EVERYWHERE I GOOO I LOVE PEOPLE I LOVE BEING ALIVE I LOVE PIZZA I LOVE BEING TRANS

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[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 30 points 2 weeks ago

YOU'RE A SUPERSTAH

AT THE GAY BAH

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 26 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 36 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

IT CAN BE!!!! I MADE ALL MY IRL FRIENDS THROUGH ORGANIZING!! find an extrovert to lach onto who will take you to the cool places and give you ketamine!! the queer clubs want you too!! the streets love you too!! find a daytime event at a gay club if thats more your speed like drag queen bingo/ brunch, or lots of places do rupaul drag race watch parties or movie nights. trust me theres some queer place that has a dirt owl shaped hole in it, and they miss you.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 25 points 2 weeks ago

HELL YEAH LETS GOOOOO lets-fucking-go

[–] Ivysaur@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

queer clubs don’t love me, an immunocompromised trans person who needs people to take covid seriously, but rock on I guess

y’all yeah shit like this makes me hate living actually. you don’t give a fuck about me or people like me. you don’t make your spaces safe and then tell me how you love your trans siblings and “comrades” organizing and partying maskless like nothing’s changed while you lock us up for years, decades, and nothing changes about your life. solidarity is dead.

[–] SovietBeerTruckOperator@hexbear.net 25 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Waiting for the "I'm so hung over" post from the same user

[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

ketamine has no hangover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my tummy does hurt though, from nothing but pizza and ice cream, and from staying up too late kitty-cri-texas

[–] 4am@lemm.ee 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

ketamine has no hangover

Oh, you sweet, young, naive child

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

yeah when i used to use it a lot i would end up getting a severe dopamine hangover the next day. not nearly as bad as the drink though

[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 24 points 2 weeks ago

I LOVE NOISE CANCELLING HEADPHONES

[–] peppersky@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Why oh why did God curse me with being a goddamn cishet dude

[–] ThermonuclearEgg@hexbear.net 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Please God…someone do this to me.

sicko-wistful

[–] Meltyheartlove@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago
[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago

The fonk (feminizing bonk)

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago

you don't have to be

[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

our cis het dude friends come with us!!! just make friends with queer people!!! in fact you should be offering to escort as many trans friends/comrades as you can so they can have a safe fun night out. learn to throw a punch and look intimidating and be the cis het body guard of the group, (literally walk every single person to thier cars, especially your trans friends, even queer spaces can be dangerous) its an important part of the ecosystem and after hanging out with queer people long enough you may not be cishet after a while.

[–] lib1@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

after hanging out with queer people long enough you may not be cishet after a while

The pipeline

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm assuming you're making a joke that you can't enjoy gay clubs. But if you do honestly feel this way...

You don't have to.

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] Gosplan14_the_Third@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

The moment you become a leftist, a countdown starts in your biological clock and cis... het? One of these won't survive. Often, it's both.

Jokes aside, the English speaking online left is not unlikely to be majority trans, and it's almost certainly majority LGBT+

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

(The implication I was going for was "your egg will hatch in...")

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Ok, just making sure we're on the same page.

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago

Was there another reading that seemed likely?

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

I can no longer see that phrase without thinking of Kyle Gordon's "We Will Never Die"

[–] da_gay_pussy_eatah@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

You were born male, maybe, but being cishet is a daily choice

[–] BatsAreRats@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

You can change that :3

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

Why oh why did God curse me with being a goddamn cishet dude

Me, just a few months before coming out as trans

[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] HelluvaBottomCarter@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] Aliveelectricwire@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago
[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

Hell yeah, love, go on and celebrate! cat-trans

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

i love gay but i hate clubs