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It's really hot - Trans Megathread for the week 2025-06-30 to 2025-07-06 (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Eco@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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it's hot. also i'm growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i'm excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

Today I gave the birds some fresh corn. The pigeons were skeptical and afraid. The sparrows loved the corn, taking single kernels and flying off with them.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

damn, maybe my complexion is more summer than autumnal. I'm rocking these warm, bright colors today

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

i havent changed my dose at all from when they were really low but my T levels are super super high since my last panel what-the-hell honestly freaking out

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago

butching the fuck out tn. my solovair leather boots arrived, drank some beers and put together an ikea shelving unit for my gfs with my drill. affirming as shit

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

learned something new today

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago

misgendering

Getting misgendered by my friends every time we hang out hurts every time but I don't wnat to ask them to change, I know it'll be super awkward and I don't want to push them away.

spoiler negativity This whole thing sucks and I hate it but I'm trying not to make another I hate being trans post. Its a constant source of pain and alienation and I don't really have hope that will change.

I think about how happy so many people were as I was figuring myself out, this must be such a disappointment. :::

[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Am I crazy or is allergy season getting longer every year holy crap I want to call in sick and I'm on antihistamines

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! That is all.

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[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

end of June thoughts

Somehow I'm never in town for the queer meetups. If I didn't know any better I'd assume they're scheduling things when I can't go, but it's just a really annoying coincidence every time.

Gonna try again to find an in-person therapist. One place just has an intake form on their website, and it feels sketchy to fill it out and input all my info without like, talking to someone I guess?

I can also go through my university I'm pretty sure. It's annoying because obviously there are resources, but they're just elusive somehow? And there are queer people around but like, I just don't see all that many events that appeal to me?

Other people appear to be meet up with people they already know. I don't know a single other queer person on campus. I don't see an obvious opportunity to meet people.

I also know that I'm fucking weird in that I'd be way more likely to go to more things if I had one person. I need to be made to socialize, frankly.

I'm using Tinder again because I don't know where or how people meet around here. I want a relationship, but I also have zero friends, and I don't know what I want or who I want to be when I'm in a relationship.

You'd think the more you post the more others would engage, but there's probably something there that I'm missing too.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago (8 children)

Ever since I started my training been noticing hvac things more often, playing yakuza and I see a mini split unit in the Earth Angel bar niko-wonderous the air handler does look to be higher than 8 feet up but still pretty cool.

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

ride or die? guess I'll die then 🤷‍♀️

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

How do I motivate myself to start cardio so I can loose weight?

Does my brain have a switch that i need to press?

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Don't ask too much from yourself, but ask for more. The key is to make sustainable incremental changes over time, trying out new things and seeing what sticks.

Discussion of weight loss, potentially triggering for those who are sensitive to the subject.

Regarding weight loss, changing eating habits is pretty much the most effective means of achieving that. Dieting is generally counterproductive and it can cause one to develop a problematic relationship with food as a whole. Like I mentioned earlier, its the sustainable incremental changes over time that get the results that stick. You mentioned cardio, and cardio is very good for you, but... Building muscle mass is the more effective means of lowering one's bodyfat percentage aaaaaaand the most effective means of gaining muscle mass is through weight training. That can be intimidating but a simple at-home dumbbell routine can be a wonderful introduction to fitness as a hobby.

I really wish the fitness comm was more active here.

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