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I think 1 is more than enough despite the size of the polycule and keeps the counter looking tidy. What do you think?

Update: getting an electric tooth brush with our first fruits and getting a separate brush attachment for each of us that we can make a piece of pottery to hold super easy! Thanks for the input those that were helpful!

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[–] itsgroundhogdayagain@lemmy.ml 34 points 3 months ago (2 children)

How is 1 MORE than enough? Is enough 0?

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago

Why do you have to show so much disrespect to fractions like that? My 5/7ths of a toothbrush works just fine, thank you very much!

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 2 months ago

The logic would be that one toothbrush is capable of serving many more people than the polycule contains.

[–] Infrapink@thebrainbin.org 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

A polycule of n people should have at least n toothbrushes.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

you fool, as n approaches infinity the mass of the toothbrushes collapses into a black hole

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

It's ok. The people would've certainly Mole of Moles'd themselves long before that happened.

[–] filtoid@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago

Time for a weekend away at Hilbert's Grand Hotel, methinks.

[–] you_are_dust@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Do you fucking have a communal piece of dental floss that you all use too?

[–] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago

my nesting partner just licks my teeth clean

[–] OmnipotentEntity@beehaw.org 22 points 2 months ago

Am I going crazy? One toothbrush for every person. I'm a monogamuggle, and I don't even share a toothbrush regularly with my wife. If you insist on the counter being tidy, put them in a drawer. Also prevents aerosolized fecal matter from getting on the toothbrush head.

[–] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

At what point? Always. What are you talking about?

Are you trolling?

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I want them to confess, actually. But it's true that it's obvious.

Your assholish attitude is not welcome, though.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 15 points 2 months ago

Every mouth should have their own toothbrush, poly or not.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Since I had zero clue:

InΒ polyamory, aΒ polyculeΒ is a group of individuals involved inΒ romanticrelationships that connect all the members in the group.[1][2]Β It is not necessary for every individual of the polycule to be in a relationship with every other individual, and also not common.[3][4]Β The most simple and arguably most common polycule structure is a V shaped structure, a three-person polycule where one person is dating the two others, but the two others are not dating one another.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 12 points 2 months ago

It is sometimes recommended that each person have TWO toothbrushes to ensure that it dries thoroughly between uses. You don't want to be culturing your mouth bacteria on your toothbrush.

You also don't all have the same mouth biome, because you likely have different oral hygiene habits, diets, etc. So no, you don't want to share toothbrushes, those of you with less healthy oral biomes may be giving undesirable stuff to those of you with healthier ones.

[–] actionjbone@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago

When you realize someone's also been using it to clean the toilet

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

There's no telling whether one or more partners might be a sink pisser, in which case your toothbrush could get accidentally peed on while you're none the wiser, so the best thing to do is not have a toothbrush at all and just use your finger

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

When you stop being single

[–] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago

This is the most disgusting post I've seen all day

[–] Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago
[–] PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Someone with "Lenin" in the nickname should not ask this question because it is obvious commies will confiscate all the toothbrushes.

[–] unwarlikeExtortion@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

If you replace yours after every use, then go for it!

If you keep a more traditional schedule of toothbrush replacement, I'd strongly suggest one brush per person per month. You might get away with one brush per 2 people per month, or one brush per person per up to 3 months, but not both.

[–] ValarieLenin@midwest.social -4 points 3 months ago (3 children)

That's what big tooth brush wants you to think. If you use mouth wash after you brush, like you are supposed to, it sanitizes your whole mouth.

[–] Localhorst86@feddit.org 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That's what someone in the pockets of big mouth wash would say.

[–] scott@lem.free.as 2 points 2 months ago

The use of mouthwash contributes to the evolution of resistant bacteria. Mouthwash should be used sparingly, only for when it's needed (i.e. medically).

The use of mouthwash also nearly negates the use of a flouride-based toothpaste.

[–] Andrzej3K@hexbear.net 1 points 2 months ago

Damages your enamel too...

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] bitcrafter@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago

It's what you get when one or more mommycules and one or more daddycules love each other very much...

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 0 points 2 months ago

My theory, this is someone deeply deluded who believes that they are multiple different people inhabiting one body. They have come into conflict within themselves of thinking that they are multiple people this requiring multiple toothbrushes and the reality of being one person who only needs one toothbrush.