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Alt text: A comic portraying someone talking with their therapist about Maslow's hierarchy of needs

(panel 1) The therapist asks "so, do you know about Maslow's hierarchy of needs?" and the patient responds "yes it's... It's a meme"

(panel 2) The therapist asks "How is that a meme?"

(panel 3) The patient says "Well people will just color the whole pyramid and say like..."

(panel 4) A colored-in pyramid captioned "dick from a girl with autism"

(panel 5) the therapist is speechless

Artist: Janehatescomics

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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 169 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)
[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 63 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Big Soil sending goons to your house rn

[–] hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

they'll have to wake up pretty early to out-goon me

[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago

Goons? 🤤

[–] Quadrexium@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

it's called bedrock because it makes you sleep

[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

This is literally deep

[–] GloriaTheFox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 1 month ago (3 children)

And then we have the other versions

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

No no, I'm with you here...

[–] Pencilnoob@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

Bravo, this one surprised me

[–] socsa@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago

L. O. A. M.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 106 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Showing your memes to your therapist is a shortcut.

[–] VoteNixon2016@lemmy.blahaj.zone 70 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How else am I supposed to win at therapy?

[–] Fuck_u_spez_@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 weeks ago

First you

and then

[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 45 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She always wants to send me to an in-patient stay afterwards. That's too much if a shortcut for me :(

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Shortcut to getting sectioned

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I mean, have you had rice? Its good shit

[–] manmachine@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

it’s the best

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Rice is one of the foods of all time

[–] diffaldo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 53 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean its not a meme if it is a real need

[–] VoteNixon2016@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you're passionate enough about something to infodump all over me, then, well....

[–] Zwiebel@feddit.org 24 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh yess infodump all over my face baby

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago

I'm just gonna leave this here 😁

[–] sartalon@lemmy.world 34 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I can't tell if the therapist's look means something just awakened inside of them.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 month ago

My headcannon says it does 😁

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago

yes and it's someone like me