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The other day I tried making a google account for an assignment my prof wanted (bro wanted presentation to be specifically on google slides and video uploaded on youtube). Google now required you to have a physical smartphone to make an account, you have to press a button that sends some kind of api that sends google an sms from your phone.

So I just told my friend to upload it for me

[–] ZC3rr0r@piefed.ca 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

This would be me if only there was some way to easily determine where I have used my @gmail address in the past 20 years. I have already set up another address that I own myself and have moved a bunch of stuff over, but I don't want to lose access to the rest of my accounts tied to my Gmail address.

Although I suppose I could go through my Keepass and list all logins that use my gmail, then chip away at that....

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Gmail might have an autoforward thing

[–] ZC3rr0r@piefed.ca 4 points 1 hour ago

It does, but that still means Google has access to all my accounts related email until I move everything over. I suppose it's a good backstop though, thanks for the tip :-)

[–] Atlusb@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

The fact that it's on YouTube enhances the joke, I feel

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

If it was deleted then how could you recover it

[–] Tottakai@europe.pub 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

It gets deleted after some time. There is some time to recover it before it will be deleted actually. 

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 1 points 29 seconds ago

So they're lying

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 hours ago

I see it as fate. I switched credit cards and wanted to register my new one on Meta but their system would not let me enter a Canadian postal code. My solution is to let the account expire in April (due to non-account payment because the credit card on file no longer exists) and sell my Quest 3s, otherwise they would have had me for another year. My days of troubleshooting or trying to get around bad design are over. Life is too short and VR, while fun, isn't fun enough for me to make the time sacrifices required to keep going. The bloom is off of the VR rose.

[–] aev_software@programming.dev 5 points 3 hours ago

My children's schools and after-school extracurricular clubs (including ones offered by the local police department) still are held hostage by Alphabet, forcing me to also maintain an account with them. But... I don't need to use it for anything else.

[–] stressballs@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

What are the gmail replacement options?

I use mailbox.org, and it's been good. I used tutanota for a while, but the fact that I couldn't use any email clients (they have their own now I've heard) made me switch. It's also why I didn't go with Proton, since you have to pay the $10/mo plan (I think) to do it with them.

[–] NewOldGuard@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

I use proton and it’s been solid

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Any small-to-medium paid email hoster. Because if not paid, you are the product. And large ones usually want both, your money and your data/advertising.

[–] ARANDOMTURKISHGUY@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

So what are you going to use?

[–] Bz1sen@lemmy.world 16 points 6 hours ago

Congratulations. I have mine still active for 2 years for email forwarding...I think I should have caught all residual services by now and switched the email adress for them. Photos are transferred to selfhosted Immich, Files on nextcloud and Filen. Maybe I should find some time for the final deletion then?

[–] dontblink@feddit.it 14 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

That's something to do while we still can, Instagram doesn't let me delete my own account :/ Tried reaching the support multiple times, I've been completely ignored

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 11 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

i used an instagram scraper tool with an account, at some point they suspended the account and required my ID. I obviously refused and just let it rot, at some point they deleted my account.

[–] dontblink@feddit.it 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

After how much time? I was banned because of using third party client, I did the kyc process at the time because I wanted to delete the account but still I could not access...

It's been years for me and they didn't delete it yet.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

You might get better results by going outside their channels and using legal options. Like not through the courts, but I think some jurisdictions have a law that you data must be deleted if a request is sent in writing or something like that. You might also be able to request they send you all the data they have (though this might cost money because they print it and mail it). I remember someone did that with their Tinder data for some article about how shitty Tinder is, though it depends on where you live.

[–] kossa@feddit.org 84 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

have been deleted

recover

🙄

At least write "is scheduled to be deleted" to make the lie not as obvious.

[–] saimen@feddit.org 2 points 2 hours ago

I mean technically deletion just means to allow the computer to overwrite the data but until this happens it can be recovered.

[–] randint@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 5 points 3 hours ago

It's like how most people call moving a file into the trash can "deleting." It is deleted (in a sense), but you can still recover it if you want before the trash can gets emptied.

Or like how even you can actually delet a file from the disk but still be able to recover it before the disk space is overwritten by other files. I'm not saying that this is what Google does when you recover a freshly deleted account (most likely not), but what I'm trying to say with these two examples is that being able to be recovered is not a contradiction with having been deleted

Also I don't get why you take problem with this. It's not like it's another loop to jump through to get to delete the account?

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I assume that the account is not usable after this. So it is a logical delete and the physical delete is scheduled. I don't know what would be a better way to phrase it, that would not confuse the users.

I am not trying to defend google, I just had similar UX issues at work.

[–] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 hours ago

Correct. Google is banking on users getting withdrawl and crawling back. They all do the same thing, like Meta products. They give you 30 days before deletion because they know most people are addicted and will recover their accounts.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Could still be actually deleted, but there's backups. Technically true.

[–] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

If you can recover my Data then my Data is NOT deleted.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 hour ago

Just a copy of it, yes.

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 93 points 11 hours ago

'removed from public access, but retained for our own or for legal purposes'

[–] libre_warrior@lemmy.ml 48 points 10 hours ago

Your data has been "deleted".

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I would never dare to do that, sadly. My job keeps me from attempting such a risky maneuver.

[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Have you considered slowly transitioning to another account/service?

I’ve been going through my google account for almost a year now, taking my time to really deal with all that stuff so I can close it for good.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

I have Kubuntu on a VM. I feel like I need to buy another device right now, just to pull it off. It takes me basically all day to do one hour of work, because idk why...I'm totally fucked. So I'm afraid of messing up the transition.

I'm already used to the sudo, apt, and npm package nonsense that everyone has to deal with.

I already accepted that it will always be broken, there will always be more workarounds, and one type might fuck up my entire OS (happened already).

EDIT: I did delete Paypal.

[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 2 points 4 hours ago

I hear ya, getting into it can be messy. And having a VM on the side is a good choice.

My current idea of a solid setup to manage long term:

*A main machine that has a bare-bones, lightweight Distro on it. Just the stuff you need to work + a VM program to run:

VM1: a copy of your main OS, test stuff out here first if you think it’s risky.

VM2: big tech corp spy software IF you need it. (Keep that sucker offline)

(And make backups/snapshots of your installation every once in a while).

If you have it: second machine: this one is for degoogling ect, save your social media stuff here before you take it out back.

If you have it: 3rd machine to run as a personal server (working on that myself)

This can all be old gear. In the process of getting to know Linux better and better (which is an ongoing process for all of us) you’ll get more and more fluent.

You got this! Don’t give up!

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 35 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

That takes me back. Been several years for me. Congratulations

[–] muxika@lemmy.world 13 points 11 hours ago

Thanks, and nice going!

[–] a4ng3l@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago

I don’t know how it works for Google but the moment they invoiced you once they might be able to or more precisely they might have to nevertheless keep yr data for years for tax reasons… And then some because they might have to comply with obscure data retention laws or such. But as of the moment this deletion happens you might not be able to access it anymore indeed.

[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 11 points 9 hours ago

Congratulations!!!

I’m getting closer and closer to this goal myself.

[–] CodenameDarlen@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I'd suggest to recover your account and burn it first: Register in a hell amount of random services for a few weeks to make it confuse about you, so their data about you will be imprecise which has no much value for them.

BUT... don't be too obvious, make it look like a legit behavior. We must assume they can spot a timestamp when you started burning it.

I say that because I did the same, straight deleted my Google account, but I wish I realized it'd be better to burn it first.

Anyway, not a mandatory thing, your data will become useless eventually, up to date data is more valuable for them than outdated data. They probably just ignore/delete old deleted accounts indeed, since it has each time less updated info.

[–] Fabrik872@lemmy.world 15 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Congratulations. Starting this year i got rid of facebook account but not completely because messenger is probably most popular messaging app in my country for some reason but still it is a great feeling

[–] Fokeu@lemmy.zip 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I've done the same. Removing messenger is impossible in Poland

[–] Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

That’s gotta be infuriating.

[–] ThatGuyNamedZeus@feddit.org 10 points 10 hours ago (4 children)

old google accounts that have been regularly used for their entire existence are whitelisted by youtube's age assurance, because if the google account is beyond like...10 years old and has been getting continuous use the entire time then there's no way it belongs to a kid anymore

that's why I kind of regret deleting my older Gmail addresses, the one I use to watch youtube is still pretty old over 15 years. but I had one google account that would be 19 years old by now

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I had one google account that would be 19 years old by now

mine is that old and i rue the day i became so dependent on it; so i suppose it's a good thing that i can't tell exactly when that happened. lol

[–] ThatGuyNamedZeus@feddit.org 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

so compartmentalize it for just watching youtube. make a new profile on your privacy-friendly web browser just for that, load that profile up with all the annoyance blocking things you need and leave the main daily-driver profile free from google.

and don't use any of google's services on mobile if you can

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

i've already done the browser stuff you recommended leveraging container tabs on firefox.

but it doesn't seem matter: i recently discovered a facebook account that i forgotten i had created 15ish years ago tied to a secondary gmail account that i don't use anywhere besides firefox in private mode a dozen or so times per year at the most on a vpn. while using that facebook account, i got an event reminder for a party that i bought a ticket to a few weeks back using my somewhat recently created proton email address along with an almost equally recent debit card & bank account that i opened a few months ago.

it makes me think that server side tracking is now more effective than anything you can do at your end.

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[–] MrSulu@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 hours ago

Nina Simone now stuck in my head, which is good, as is your achievement. I struggled for years to rid myself of their evil grip.

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