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It’s my first month being 18, they do this every month or so. You know what that means…

I’m inviting friends and my two girlfriends to party. My sister will be there and we’re gonna drink, dance till early morning, and who knows what else?

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[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If you take edibles and think they aren't working, don't take more!

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thanks man!!!! I should probably buy some to try out but right now, I just have my parents' alcohol I'm gonna steal. I'm giving some to my sister too despite that she's 15. I haven't done this since I was a junior at 16 but last time, my sister was like 13 and I didn't give her any.

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Good decision, for a first time doin edibles you should avoid annything else.

Keep a safe eye on your sister though, you will be responsible if she has too much.

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

Thanks, I'll try, as much as I can for a drunk 18-year-old. She'll be with plenty of adults and teens alike.

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Whatever you do, please drink enough water

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

Thanks! The party just started and I willl

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As someone who is probably closer to your parents' age (or maybe older?) I say good for them! My wife and I like to stay at a hotel once or twice a year, usually with a convention or something. It's a nice change of pace and nice to not clean up.

So, not gonna try to be a parent-type and tell you to limit your fun, but out of respect to people who might be my generation... be safe. I will say that, at least.

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago

Thanks, I will!!!

[–] PolarKraken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Have fun, but DO know the signs of alcohol poisoning, know what to do if someone ends up in dangerous shape.

Was about to give you my ancient "we ain't calling the wee-woo-wagon" home remedy we used back in my day, glad I checked first, shocker, it's a pretty terrible idea.

Just understand that human beings, and particularly knucklehead kiddos, can very easily ingest much more alcohol than their body can safely process, BEFORE the body gives unignorable signals of "hey stop doing that to me, no bueno".

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Not a fan of drinking personally but I hear lots of water and an electrolyte drink like hydralyte helps a lot for the next day. Have fun!

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My two girlfriends

At the same time? Brave.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's a nice perk when you can get it. I have someone coming to visit soon and I'm making similar plans... 🐺👌

[–] Tronn4@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I had this all the time. Left hand. Right hand.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Is it incest if it's yourself?

🎶 Sweet home Alabama... 🎶

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We're expecting a report back in the morning, as to how it went.

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

Thanks, I'll leave updates. The party will start in about an hour as my family doesn't leave until 5:00 so I expect the party to be at like 5:30

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Have a ton of fun!

(And be happy for your parents getting some sexy time, as weird as the thought is.)

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

Thanks!!!! I wiøl for both, im a little drunk rn

[–] atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

THEY'RE GONE EARLY!!!! THEY PROBABLY WENT FOR DINNER LIKE THEY SAID AND THEN LATER TO THE HOTEL!!!!!!!