Community is what you make it. I've been fortunate enough to have great neighbors
It's missing the part where some boomers complained to the city council about noisy delinquents and got a curfew enacted.
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or the head of the HOA giving a $500 fine for the $100 basketball hoop not being approved before "installation"
Yeah i guess we can make up a bunch of shitty what-ifs if you want to lol
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Thing like that happened in my neighborhood a couple of years ago - city council decided to tear down one of the bench spots and make a skate park instead. people fucking hated it and even protested the construction site. but now it is full of kids and teenagers literally all the time and every now and then you can even catch an actual music concert or literary reading and its a bustling place all round.
Kids don’t play outside anymore in the US because streets have been designed primarily for cars.
That was true back in the day when kids played outside.
There's just one school-age kid living on my block for several years now. It's a little sad, he has no one to play with, but he's often outside in the afternoon while his mom smokes pot in the garage.
I'm not sure if it's what you were implying but without anymore detail, I don't really see a problem with that.
It's kind of the same as having a beer out in the yard while your kid plays? Maybe you're not directly playing with them but you're hanging out with them as they play. I'd have been perfectly happy with having that as a kid
The sad truth is that a cul-de-sac hoop is a massive and instant property value killer. Most, if not all, HOA rules in high priced neighborhoods prohibit them, and many prohibit front driveway hoops too.
Yet another reason to never live in an area with an HOA
Ya, this is an hoa problem not a cul de sac problem.
It's so sad that HOAs are like that over there, because in principle they could be just as good a thing as what the xheet is about. Bureaucratic, yes, but basically about community. We have HOAs here, and they make questionable decisions, too, but they never meddle like this.
The US have an extraordinary ability to ruin anything. Things are either capitalised or policed
Good ones exist, you just don't hear about them.
Wouldn't kids playing outside be good for property values? Was talking to a friend and he told me he'd never raise kids in his old suburb because he never sees kids playing outside. I assume it's similar for most parents looking for a place to start their family in, seeing there are other kids in the neighborhood who your kid can socialize and be active with seems like a major selling point.
You have to remember that you're aiming for the market with the highest amount of extra income. What it comes down to is that it's best for property value if you can't even tell if anyone lives there at all.
This. The most valuable properties are neighborhoods where nobody lives. Honestly, HOA boards should kick everyone out and gate up the entire neighborhood, only sending in mowing crews to sculpt the yards.
Sadly, no. At least, not on the street.
I grew up in a cul-de-sac of a poor neighborhood, and it was essentially a giant playground. Highly recommended as a child. It is, however, toxic for property values. That's why planned neighborhoods have parks, playgrounds, courts, etc., so that kids are relegated to designated play areas.
Funny thing about that, is the people who live next to the parks complain anyway. In my town, there is a really nice park with all of the amenities. Basketball courts, playground, tennis courts, soccer field. It's awesome. Because of the rising popularity of Pickly Ball, and the fact that the tennis courts were often empty, it was brought up that one of the tennis courts should be turned into two Pickle courts. It went through all of the necessary steps with City Hall and was ultimately shut down because the people who lived alongside the park thought it would be too loud.
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Oh, people are worried that they'll hit somebody's kid backing out of the driveway.
More reasons to build interconnected walking neighbourhoods with car parking, if even needed, out of the way. For some reason we’re so obessessed with cars that we’d rather our frint yard be half pavement and looking onto a road than walking even a small distance to a more predictable parking area where kids are less likely to randomly appear.
Not so fun fact: Parents run over their own children in their own driveways at an alarming rate and still we do nothing about it in the US and Canada because we literally hold the car so far above the safety of our living children that it must not suffer any inconvience, no matter the cost.
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Oh noes, bUt tHiNk of tHe eCoNoMy
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Before I read the post text I was going to yell “Fake!” because surely a Karen would ruin this.
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What’s the meaning of the past tense there? “I’ve been fortunate enough”
- Guy sets up hoop
- Kids play basketball with hoop
- Kid twists his ankle playing basketball
- Hoop is removed as a safety hazard
- Guy sued by parents (optional but likely)
Yep, also likely is someone is driving and can't park their ultra power diesel 4x4 placebo truck into their garage and demands the hoop be taken down, running over a kid optional in that case, and karens all get together saying how dangerous it is for kids to be playing in the street.
OR, old couple get mad at children laughing, they control the HOA with an iron fist, and pass new bylaws saying no obstacles in parking spaces or something. Kids go back to loitering at gas station and causing trouble, so older people can say "kids these days, never play outside anymore".
I'm jaded, but as an example. We had a youth center that our town made for kids so they wouldn't be hooligans and have a place for them. Well, the seniors noticed this nice open building was just empty, claimed it was a waste of money, and started going there during school days. Which started fine, until eventually they stayed later and later until school got out and those pesky kids came by. So naturally, the seniors demanded that it no longer be a youth center but instead a senior center. So it was changed. Ending of that story is eventually those seniors got bored, stopped going, and now it sits empty.
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- Guy sets up hoop
- Kids play basketball
- Crazy person thinks they’re too loud.
- Crazy person calls cops.
- Cops do nothing.
- Crazy person kills kids.
crazy person also drives by every day with LED headlights and flash bangs every living room in sight, while idling their car for over ten minutes every morning in the winter
because it's not about what's actually intrusive, it's about their own selfish concerns
"I've been" usually implies a "so far" and is broader than strict present tense (includes previous places of residence). Another way to phrase it could be "I'm fortunate enough to have had great neighbors everywhere I've lived"
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We have a few kids in the neighborhood that are close enough in age to hang out. Initially you hear everyone complain that kids never play outside anymore. Well, they all found each other and started playing outside. When that started, a whole different group of neighbors complained about all the kids being unsafe and loud in the streets. To be clear, these kids watch for cars, don't damage yards, and generally just try to keep to themselves. I understand why kids prefer to be in of doors where they can just get on discord with their buddies.
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