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Like was it a meaningful debate or a flat out flame war? And what was the main theme you were arguing over?

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[–] Tiral@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

People that believe all that ghost shit on YouTube is real. It's basically boomers and religious tards with a 3rd grade education that don't understand how easy it is to edit video for the average person. They all comment "May Christ protect you" and other crap like that. While these people pump out an episode every week like clock work where they're possessed, attacked, or some other BS. Best part is when they go "we almost died" over and over, because name one person on a paranormal investigation that died that isn't an obvious natural cause.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

responding to people the youtube sub how they are supporting youtubes algorithim and slop by watching it and logging in, and they were complaining about youtubers that are producing slop. i was telling them how you cant complain about people like mr beast and defend him at the same time.

and saying how right wing content gets through the feed if you are not logged in, and i wasnt going to give google more data by logging in just to curate the feed.

[–] BurgerBaron@quokk.au 3 points 8 hours ago

Meaningful never, I liked suggesting junk food/sugary drinks should be treated exactly like Cigarettes on reddit which is mostly American and watching the sparks fly.

[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

The difference between socialism and social democracy and how most people actually advocate for the latter rather than the former due to a fundamental misunderstanding of what the definitions of those two things are.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

I would say it's mostly topics I'm not actually arguing about.

I tend to point out false statements or false assumptions. I do it regardless of the topic or my position on an issue, but usually it's taken as general opposition to whatever the person was saying. So they call me a shill or demand that I prove a ridiculous point of view they imagine I must hold. It's like only The Enemy is expected to care about the accuracy of what The Right Side says.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I always hate when someone I agree with makes a stupid argument. Then if I point out their bad argument, I look like I'm arguing the other side

[–] c64z86@piefed.world 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

The treatment of those with disabilities or who are just down on their luck, by the mostly apethic "I'm alright jack" public. I've had many arguments with those who thought that just because somebody needed benefits that they were milking the system.

The most disgusting and revolting thing I can read on the subject from somebody is "if I've managed to get by fine without state help and support, so can/should they"... And yes many do actually think this way, sometimes even to those who need wheelchairs or other aids.

Sometimes I've managed to convince them to care about somebody other than themleves for a change, sometimes I've caused them to go away thinking about it, and other times I've caused them to double down on their stance.

Either way, the engagements were meaningful and eye opening and I'll defend this position until the day I die because nobody has any business being that disgusting towards other human beings.

[–] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

I agree. Sometimes people who value equality forget about equity. That is helping others to achieve their own level of equality. A person in a wheelchair needs a ramp, a person with an invisible illness needs accommodations, too. Equity is almost always overlooked but it is necessary for true equality to occur. I wrote a whole paper about this in college.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 6 points 22 hours ago

That historical events can be approached and assessed without contemporary extrapolations. But to boil down years of internets, including old ezboard forums, I'd say it's been over the Clean Wehrmacht theory/myth.

I used to be really into WW2 history communities and I would routinely approach things objectively and piss a bunch of nerds off who pervert history and just want to obsess over how Hitler could've won.

So I have argued far too much with people who hate Hitler just because he lost the war to Stalin. Like, primary sources would mean nothing. I'd have correspondence transcripts from commanders and diplomats, and they'd have their latest Hearts of Iron game run.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 2 points 17 hours ago

Socialism, but it's on me for engaging. I'll do it again.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 16 hours ago

I used to go out of my way to argue with people on Facebook about vaccines and about representation of minorities in media. I liked to yell at antivaxxers and bigots

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 20 hours ago

I honestly don't remember. I generally end convos if they are not being productive or have the chance of being productive.

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