Im 54 male and the idea of dating someone my son's age is akin to pedophilia to me.
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I’m 33 and the idea of dating a 20 year old is so insane. Like I have almost NOTHING in common with that age group.
Same. I'm in my 40s. I have no kids, but i have friends and siblings with adult children. Nieces and nephews (the word niblings is fantastic) The idea of dating someone in their 20s is utterly repulsive. I'm just glad I'm taken. Dating has changed so much in the last two decades... those social media fuck systems frighten me.
OP gets to buy their mom alcohol for a year.
Dads definitely already doing that. Might be able to get a side racket going buying cannabis if dad isn't cool with that though...
A friend of mine married. At the wedding, her father (a widower) met the grooms mother (a widow). Some time later, they married each other. Some time later again, my friend and her husband divorced.
Can you imagine this kind of awkward family meetings?
Okay, do you mind if i one up the awkward? I had some friends in high school start dating. Their parents were single. They met. About two, three years into the kids dating, the parents start dating. As soon as they graduated high school, the kids got married. A year later so did the parents.
Both couples are still together but like, "yeah i'm married to my sister. she wasn't my sister when we got married tho. damn mom and dad" is one hell of a story.
If you think about it, it makes sense. 2 similarly raised kids should theoretically have parents with a lot in common.
i mean even they thought it was pretty weird for the first two years. and by they, i mean all of them. but love is love.
That's why I just avoid family gatherings. Too many exes
/jk
Go nuclear. DOES SHE HAVE A GRANDFATHER

What? "Pork them both?!"
But one of them is the father!
Go through all the male lineage and then show up at the family reunion as everyone's guest.
Wait need to know if OP is a male, female, or intergenerational demon bent on enriching the family but keeping all who would love them at bay through a terrible curse
Good catch. They might live in a candle too

For fuck sake, woman! Just stay with Jean Luc!
I just watched the episode where Picard got doppelgangered and put the moves on Blazin' Bev. Dammit JLP pick a lane!
Even if he picks a lane, some space probed flute harlot will just catch his eye anyway.

AND THE NEXT EPISODE HE GETS SEDUCED BY VASH WHAT THE FUCK JLP PICK A LANE
more like what the hell rick berman but i'll admit, both my wife and i were a little seduced by vash too

Nah, they would have to order too much food, which would then be wasted. Everyone would think every male family member comes with their new girlfriend, and it's all the same girl? Think of all the wasted cake!
If I was the girl in question, there would be no cake going to waste.
Do it OOP. Dead or alive.
From what I've seen, the internet has a firm stance on what to do with step moms.
Especially if they get stuck under the living room table
My cousin in law's husband basically did this, except she looks very similar to his daughter.
Incidentally, his daughter doesn't talk to him anymore.
I wonder why...
Dad groomed an almost Child and the almost Child is to blame?
My interpretation was that the intent is to punish the dad. When his (presumed) daughter dates someone his own age, he'll realize how fucked up it is.
Unfortunately they probably have Double Standards.
Obviously.
If he did not have double standards then he wouldn't care that his daughter is getting fucked in the bum hole by his father in-law.
Wild to assume that they where groomed without any mention of it on the post.
Almost child? The age gap with someone who's presumably in their 50's is weird as hell (especially when their own child is OLDER THAN THEM!!) but a 20 year old isnt a child.
Not primarily, but if my parent cheated on another parent with someone around my age: we scrapping regardless of who's more to blame.
so dad's dead so it's not really an issue anymore, and as far as any of us know both he and mom were faithful to each other. but if my parents wanted to cheat that's none of my business. if they chose to cheat with someone my age, that's everybody's business.
Now that you mention it, if my parent cheated with someone their age, I could probably see myself doing something morally grey in response, too.
I have an ex whose dad cheated on her mom while her mom was pregnant. Can't imagine the emotional rollercoaster from that.
Ah the Grandma paradox!
So... She will be the mother (in-law) of her own father?
This song is the only thing I remember from an absolutely terrible movie called "the Stupids" that came out back in the 90s.
Is this the Musk family?
Is shit like this that fuels all that step mom content?
Why are the last numbers slumping in the upvotes and comments?
They probably took a screenshot when the page was dynamically updating the numbers. They do that to show that the post is actively getting votes/comments. Whether it's legit new updates or not I have no idea, but that's what you're seeing, the text is mid-animation