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For about 100% of my life I wore the same look: pants and T-Shirt/Hoodie. In Summer it was a short pair of pants and a T-Shirt. Another important thing is, that I rarely get sunburn, even when not using suncream, and I therefore rarely use suncream. These two things get quite funny, when You start to transition and start wearing more revealing clothes than usual.

So there was a pride parade a few weeks back and I decided to wear this very cool shoulder free top. Guess who forgot to wear suncream, and then burned all of her shoulders, because she never ran around shoulder free, and therefore her skin was not adapted to the sun?

So please for the love of god, when going out with more revealing clothes than usual:

WEAR FUCLING SUNCREAM

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[–] SillyMe@piefed.social 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I don't seem to have any fucking sunscreen. Will the regular stuff work?

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 3 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, it should work too. The fucking part is important if you want it to stick better to your skin.

[–] TrippingBalls@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 8 hours ago

I also call it this

[–] CascadianGiraffe@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

Also some meds have warnings against prolonged UV exposure.

Always read the fine print.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago

Shitty LPT: get a bunch of fine line tattoos, that way you'll be inclined to wear sunscreen in order to keep them fresh

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 20 hours ago

All it took was not rubbing in spray-on sunscreen for me to get blisters all over my shoulders on a waterpark day as a kid.

The sun hates me. 🥲

[–] Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got sunburn so badly it gave me something called “Hell’s Itch” and I will never forget sunscreen again from that experience. Think of your foot falling asleep but all over your sunburn. I probably have nerve damage from it.

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That sounds like pure hell

[–] Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago

It’s very aptly named

[–] knightly@pawb.social 6 points 20 hours ago

I like to bring a big gay umbrella or a parasol to Pride. =D

[–] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sun is awful, i get very very uncomfy on sun, my vision is unhappy, my body too

just wearing closed clotches, since feel incredibly sensory uncomfy outside when my skin is too open, never wearning short pants

also when trying to use sunscreen uguguhguh is very sensory uncomfy, i hate feeling of something on my skin, even own sweating (this can lead to very very sensory overloads),

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I have a friend who hates the feeling of sunscreen so much he would rather burn or do anything else to avoid putting it on

[–] guynamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

maybe because the sun in my asshole is pretty rare? and mostly hot days are very rare, either -30C winter either +30C summer, and awful mid periods such as spring, autumn, sun is rare, most of year is cold

alsoooooooo my body is sensitive to heat, but isnt to cold, weird, my mom opposite which leads to conflict with home temperature, fan, clotching

I love the cold so much. If it were a person I’d marry it.

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 14 hours ago

Yes! Also really important now during both festival season and massive heatwaves in Europe

[–] minty@aussie.zone 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still have nightmares of my fucking feet peeling after a day at the beach as a kid. And oh the sun blistering on my nose. I do worry about my skin cancer risk lmao

[–] Seleni@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

I spent one summer day snorkeling around tidepools as a kid; it was a blast. Saw a bunch of fish, even an octopus!

…And I didn’t put sunscreen on at all, so my back got so burned I couldn’t hardly sit or lie down the entire rest of the trip lol

Never forgot sunscreen again that’s for sure

[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 4 points 23 hours ago

I remember one day few years ago, i spent entire day outside on hot sunny day. I was literally cooked. Now i put sun protecting cream on EVERY bare piece of my skin.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world -1 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

The hell is "suncream"? Did you mean sunscreen?

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

It was a literal translation from the German word for it, but it is a correct English word (that means the same as sunscreen)

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I've never heard suncream here in the US, but apparently it is a valid term. Sunscreen is a better word, though, because it won't be confused with suntan lotion, which "suncream" could be. Sonnenschutzmittel looks to be the closest equivalent to "sunscreen".

[–] Crozekiel@lemmy.zip 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I believe that is the more commonly used term in the UK while sunscreen is more USA.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Color me surprised. Leave it to the Brits to take a normal word and made it silly and weird!

[–] jac@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 8 hours ago

Oh yeah, because "Sunscreen" is so sensible. ☀️📺

Listen to yourself.

[–] WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Just so you don't get shit in the future, the word is "sunscreen."

[–] my_hat_stinks@programming.dev 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunscreen

Sunscreen, also known as sunblock,[a] sun lotion or sun cream

You should really make sure you're right before being pedantic.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've never heard anyone call it sun cream in 30+ years, so it's an understandable thing to think someone is using a slightly wrong word. I don't find it pedantic at all. Wrong, apparently, but not pedantic.

[–] femtek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/pedantic disapproving : of, relating to, or being a pedant (as in being overly concerned with minor details)

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I don't consider informing someone of something they might not know to be "overly concerned with minor details"

You literally don't know what you don't know. Learning new things and informing people of new things shouldn't be frowned upon.

Personally, I understood what sun cream is from context, and assumed OP is not a native English typer. Close-but-not-quite words like that are common, and a polite correction is appreciated by many. I absolutely love when I use the wrong word in Spanish and someone politely corrects me, because then I understand the language better.

I'm sorry if that comes off as "pedantic" to you, I guess.

[–] my_hat_stinks@programming.dev 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Personally I find any unsolicited grammar "advice" unnecessary and incredibly rude, doubly so when it's not even right. It just breeds toxicity and devolves conversations into pedantry about pedantry.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 21 hours ago

Well then I guess have fun being upset on other people's behalf for the rest of your life. 👍

Reflective/transflective LCD or e-paper?

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

hey dacow <3

its called sunscreen ~ i know i know "Sonnencreme" but still hehe >v<

In case you don’t know, “sun cream” is a regional variation of the term “sunscreen”. It’s also often called “sun block” or “sun lotion”.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunscreen