Yeah, I've been using public transit all my life so I'm used to this, but not friends using a car.
I can go into another city and country and use public transit based on my past experiences with different transit agencies and paper schedules in the 90ies. Yet my friends and family don't even know how/where to buy a ticket and what bus/train goes where. I can go see them using public transit, but they have no idea on how to do it themselves. In their own region! They find me resourceful just to be able to use a bus in Guadeloupe or a tram in Germany.
And they're kind of right. It's a skill in itself, just to know how to use public transit. It's always a bit messy and different for every city and region. There are some systems and cities that I entirely avoid because of this.
The metro area where I live changed the whole fare system a few years ago and they were doing it gradually, year by year. It was painful. I still need two different transit cards right now, and they're introducing tickets in the Chrono apps.