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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by JonsJava@lemmy.fmhy.ml to c/showerthoughts@lemmy.world

I'm tired about reading about reddit here.

We left. Let's move on.

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[-] kratoz29@lemmy.world 363 points 1 year ago

So... Are we on a date? 😳

[-] JonsJava@lemmy.fmhy.ml 27 points 1 year ago

I mean, ....

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[-] SomeoneElse@lemmy.world 262 points 1 year ago

I don’t mean to be rude OP, but your entire contribution to lemmy has been 5 comments and this single post about Reddit. In order to gain traction as a viable alternative to Reddit we need OC and active participation in the comment section. Be the change you want to see and lead by example - start posting interesting non-Reddit related stuff yourself. The more people that do, the better lemmy will be.

[-] BraBraBra@lemmy.world 79 points 1 year ago

I think we need to start poaching video content from reddit and posting it here. Stuff like HoldMyBeer, StartledCats, etc. There's so much content for the taking, I don't think we should get stuck on OC. In this stage we just need content. I'm seriously considering starting a cat sub or holdmybeer sub, and stealing all the content from reddit until people starting posting their own contributions.

[-] henfredemars@infosec.pub 52 points 1 year ago

One should stress that it should be good content though. One of our strengths at this time is the reduced number of bots and more active contributors.

There is plenty of content out there however, and I started sharing some of my favorite links with the smaller communities. Doing my part.

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[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago

Yeah, the bitching about people bitching about Reddit is far more annoying than just the bitching about Reddit.

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[-] acunasdaddy@lemmy.world 142 points 1 year ago

Hard disagree. The Reddit situation is a huge news story even for people who aren’t on Reddit.

Also you wouldn’t bring up an ex on a first date because you’re trying to impress the new person. However you would definitely talk about her to friends and family if it was an upsetting situation for you. Reddit was a big part of my life and it fucking sucks what happened To it

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[-] druphis@lemmy.zip 119 points 1 year ago

Here is a hot take: think of it like leaving a house you have been renting for 10 years. Our relationship wasn't with the landlord as much as it was the neighbors and community.

Now, our landlord turned to a money-grubbing asshat ~~spaz~~ spez. You better believe we are telling everyone in our community, old and new, not to rent from him. Additionally, we are going to be venting the hurt of being evicted. We have all been forced to find a new neighborhood and learn everything new that comes with it. Our habits have been reset and it sucks.

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[-] rustyfish@lemmy.world 104 points 1 year ago

It's less obsessing over that site, but more:

I wanna see that bitch burn.

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[-] pleasemakesense@lemmy.world 91 points 1 year ago

It's been like a week since the most recent migration happened, we can't just expect this to blow over immediately when like 90% here came from reddit just 7 days ago

[-] dodgypast@vlemmy.net 42 points 1 year ago

I do feel for those who were enjoying a peaceful place until us rabble turned up needing to go through the stages of grief.

I'm very grateful for it existing.

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[-] MeetInPotatoes@lemmy.world 81 points 1 year ago

Bad analogy, it would be like meeting up with all your ex-girlfriend's other former partners and all bitching about that shared ex because you have that thing in common.

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The fediverse has gradually shifted from being 75% posts complaining about reddit and 25% other to being 25% posts complaining about reddit, 25% posts complaining about how people come here to complain about reddit, and 50% other. We be makin progress!

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[-] DemigoD@lemmy.world 72 points 1 year ago

ya ok but then again you did make this thread, currently #1 on my lemmy world feed, about bitching about reddit lol

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[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 70 points 1 year ago

Instead of reddit, why not talk about something more positive on your date, like how many tickets you are going to buy for my new movie, "Barbie", only in theaters July 21st?

[-] JoumanaKayrouz@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

Wait, Barbie™ ? The upcoming fantasy comedy film directed by Greta Gerwig from a screenplay she wrote with Noah Baumbach? Based on the Barbie fashion dolls by Mattel? The first live-action Barbie film after many computer-animated direct-to-video and streaming television films? The film starring Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling as Barbie and Ken, respectively, alongside an ensemble supporting cast that includes America Ferrera, Kate McKinnon, Issa Rae, Rhea Perlman, and Will Ferrell?

[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

That's "Academy Award nominated character actress Margot Robbie" to you!

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[-] Rhin0@lemmy.world 64 points 1 year ago

But what if that crazy bitch stabbed you and it makes a pretty good story

[-] Nucelar@kbin.social 31 points 1 year ago

Lets not pretend we werent completely hooked either

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[-] communistcapy 62 points 1 year ago

It would be more like you both dated the same asshole and are bonding over your mutual hatred.

[-] adamantris@lemmy.world 58 points 1 year ago

just let people vent, itll stop eventually once everything settled for good

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[-] _sideffect@lemmy.world 54 points 1 year ago
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[-] Some_Emo_Chick@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago

Except the person you are on the date with also broke up with Reddit, and that is why you are on a date in the first place.

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[-] hardypart@feddit.de 49 points 1 year ago

Not really. The reddit drama is a major disturbance in the internet. It's a huge topic and thus naturally generates lots of discussion. Of course everyone's talking about it.

[-] g0nz0li0@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

Especially people directly affected by it!

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[-] darthfluffy@lemmy.world 48 points 1 year ago

Says the person talking about…Reddit.

[-] AccountNo5@kbin.social 25 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I see so many of these post now. It's like going on a date and and spending the whole night talking about dates that only talk about their ex

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago

Really it's more like we're all Reddit's exes who've unionized

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[-] Trapping5341@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago

Personally I enjoy hearing about the reddit drama. I don't spend nearly as much time there as I did before they broke my beloved sync so I enjoy getting to read about the ongoing shenanigans over there.

[-] penguin@lemmy.fmhy.ml 30 points 1 year ago

I want it to burn and I want to watch it burn. Is that such a crime?

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[-] Chalky_Pockets@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago

I would say it's more like when a bunch of friends collectively break up with toxic partners and have a big meeting to talk about it. It'll die down after a while. People on Reddit don't really talk about Digg anymore.

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[-] MythicalDraught@lemmy.world 43 points 1 year ago

No. Joining Lemmy and bitching about Reddit is more like you and one or two other roommates moving out of a large, historically awesome collective steadily being ruined by an increasingly dictatorial house-owner (who used to live there too) and bitching about it in your brand new but decidedly smaller one, hopefully looking towards the future between tirades and building to regain some of that lost awesomeness

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[-] RedEyeFlightControl@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago

Disagree. We're enjoying watching our collective ex trainwreck. The chatter will die down soon, let us laugh a little and we'll move on :)

[-] Ddubz@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago

Agreed, and not only that but holy fuck we just broke up a week ago. I was in a relationship with that bitch for 12 years, I don't need my homies over here telling me it's time to forget about it lol

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[-] wilberfan@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We talk about what's important to us in the moment... It's part of how we mourn the loss we've just experienced.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago

I didn't join the Fediverse to bitch about Reddit, but I'm sure enjoying it.

Real talk: it’s because we’re trying to identify and preemptively avoid the pitfalls of Reddit.

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[-] Teon@kbin.social 36 points 1 year ago

I love reading about reddit AND twitter on the Fediverse.
It's better than reality TV could ever hope to be.
Entitled assholes who run the place, decide to start their platforms on fire and then try and blame the users.
Really?
And then they get all temper tantrum on the users and punish people like the tyrants they are.
Failing, worse than anyone ever in the history of business, (yes, YOU elon), is just a joy to behold.
Who is an amazing business man? Not you spez, elon, trump.
Ego will be your ultimate death.
Welcome to social media gentlemen, thank you for lighting yourselves on fire. Please clean up when you are done.

[-] FlagonOfMe@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 year ago

It's barely been a week! Let me grieve!

[-] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 31 points 1 year ago

It's only been 8 days dude. Gotta give people time to grieve and accept it so they can move on.

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[-] JshKlsn@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

Reddit was full of Digg comments for a while.

Imgur was full of Reddit comments for a while (when Imgur decided to become their own social platform).

Lemmy is going to be full of Reddit comments for a while.

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[-] fuklu@lemmy.fmhy.ml 28 points 1 year ago

Sure, yeah, but you have to talk about your ex for a while to process and get over them.

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[-] Strolleypoley@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago
[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago

No, that's a bad analogy. A closer one with your context is having a bad breakup and then getting into another relationship and moving in with the person, where your share stuff about your prior life along with other stuff.

But a better analogy is people living in an apartment building who get together for social events in the common area for years until the management starts doing shitty stuff, increasing rent, etc. A hunk of people decide they aren't taking it anymore, so they all move into the newly built apartment down the road that doesn't have many people in it yet. The new place also has community events, and now it's mostly people from the old place that are talking about what happened in the old place.

Bad breakup, eviction, or whatever, you can't expect a group of people who had a bad experience together to just stop talking about it in a few weeks. The vast majority of Lemmy users came from Reddit. It will die down when people really have gotten over it.

[-] SpinnakerSam@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

I would liken it more to starting at a new job in the same industry. You have lots to praise, critique and compare about your new job to your old job, and the only people who can appreciate what you have to say are your new peers.

It's just the nature of the situation. This will likely be a trend for a while.

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