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[–] MesaCoast@infosec.pub 36 points 2 years ago (1 children)

thank u stuff ❀️

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 34 points 2 years ago

you're welcome stuff

[–] spacecadet@hexbear.net 32 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The stupid Robert Downey Jr picture works on me every single time I don't know whyyyy. It tickles me so

[–] Rom@hexbear.net 23 points 2 years ago

It's a real shitposting workhorse stuff

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 31 points 2 years ago

Don't let transphobia ruin a good post-nut bliss vibe.

[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 28 points 2 years ago (2 children)

don't fall for it, he might be a misogyne (doesnt listen to women)

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 32 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Critical, uhhh, support for misogynistic dudes being misogynistic towards trans women.

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 26 points 2 years ago

Implying that misogynistic transphobic dudes aren't going around being misogynistic towards trans women, while simultaneously denying that they see us as women

[–] Omniraptor@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

i would prefer not to

[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

well it technically means they recognize trans women as women.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 28 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Awesome, now I can be subject to regular ol misogyny all day every day. Can't wait for the men in the room to just casually talk over me like I'm not even there

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 30 points 2 years ago

Can't wait for the men in the room to just casually talk over me like I'm not even there

Uhh, it's called a filibuster, sweaty! maybe-later-kiddo

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 22 points 2 years ago

yeah lets not give trans inclusive misogynists any credit

[–] star_wraith@hexbear.net 26 points 2 years ago

THIS MAN IS YOUR FRIEND

HE IS NOT TRANSPHOBIC

[–] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 21 points 2 years ago

What a good person :)

[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 2 years ago

Good ending

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 10 points 2 years ago

he is not transphobic 🀣 πŸ˜‚ 🀣 πŸ˜‚

[–] zifnab25@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 64 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

idk, i think having sex with someone stealth and then just being chill when they come out after isn't really chaser shit

i mean, i get not wanting to applaud people too much for fucking trans women. that isn't activism, no matter how fun it is. but as a funny edit of a transphobic comic i'm perfectly cool with it

[–] zifnab25@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

idk, i think having sex with someone stealth and then just being chill when they come out after isn't really chaser shit

On its face, sure. But reducing interactions with trans-people to being naked in bed together (particularly when the trans-person is a punchline to a straight white guy's situational comedy joke) is more about fetishizing trans people than being chill. There's much better comedic material to reference.

[–] ElectronNumberSeven@hexbear.net 46 points 2 years ago (1 children)

lmao at a (presumably cis) dude trying to explain to a trans woman what does or does not count as fetishizing trans women

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 40 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I appreciate the spirit of the poster but sometimes listening is the way to go

[–] WithoutFurtherRelay@hexbear.net 42 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

This is because the original comic was just actual transphobia, so if you’re going off vibes some yikes elements are going to bleed through. The joke is that the comic is subverted by being no longer transphobic.

[–] zifnab25@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

This is because the original comic was just actual transphobia

TIL. It hadn't even occurred to me.

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago

i definitely get how it reads a lot worse as an original comic rather than a low effort edit of a transphobic one to make it less bad! i still don't think it's chaser shit, and i think it's important to recognize that trans people can be in sexual contexts without it being inherently fetishistic, but the lingering remnants of transphobia from the original do still show, so i'm sympathetic to your pov

[–] WithoutFurtherRelay@hexbear.net 21 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah, the original probably has the second panel be the guy shitting himself and dying or something

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 2 years ago

What passes for "comedy"

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

I've spent 10 minutes trying to type out a reply where i call out the transphobia of your idea that wanting to have a casual hookup with me must be inherently fetishistic, or that you're cisplaining to trans people what a chaser is (hint: you have zero insight into that subject and it fucking shows). I just can't do this. Go fuck yourself and do some self crit, i'm out of here.

[–] WithoutFurtherRelay@hexbear.net 43 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Wait wait wait what the fuck? How?

At what point are we just stigmatizing treating trans people as anything except a weirdly fetishized sexless totem?