I can tell you one instance in which I eat out...
In all seriousness, I like to cook at home for the most part. It's cheaper, safer for me as a vegan, more customizable, and just more fun, especially since I like to try out various recipes. However, I live in a place with a shared kitchen, and I've been not using it so much because of some insufferable shit that goes on there. I do microwave any frozen vegan meals I can get my hands on, and I plan to start cooking regularly again once I finally move into my own apartment where I have a whole space to myself. That's gonna happen around early September, though.
As far as eating out goes, I like to do it at the cheapest joints where I can find a nice quick vegan bite. I find that a lot of Asian restaurants, especially Indian ones, do this job for me pretty well, but I change it up every now and then.
When it comes to pinkwashing racism, there's always this disturbing binary of "white gay people who minorities and immigrants would kill" and "minorities and immigrants who would kill white gay people" being endorsed by these people. The awful people who promote this never consider that queer BIPOC, Muslims, immigrants, etc. exist. That's why it has always personally concerned me when I see racist white gays supporting the far-right because they have this flawed mentality that your average non-white person is more dangerous than even the most reactionary whites. Funnily enough, that excuse shrivels up when they have to factor in how I, as a black queer person, would live under the subjugation of their "ideal"fascist society.
Yesterday, I talked (online) with someone who I told that I'm a communist, and using these exact words, they refer to me as a "liberal" later on when I said I don't support Biden:
"I didn't know there were liberals who don't support Biden."
...even though I literally told this person (who was definitely a chud) that I'm a communist.
They creep me out too, but I don't kill them either. I actually ordered a tool online specifically for the purpose of catching them and releasing them outside. I got that after a sizable cockroach crawled on my foot one night when the lights were off. I freaked out so hard that it ended up escaping because it was overwhelmed by my reaction. I was crying, I felt very bad, and I was paranoid all night when I tried to sleep.
I can't imagine straight-out-of-high-school 18-year-old me even coming as close to being as demonic as the IDF has been. I'm sure many other people couldn't either, but I can only speak for myself ultimately.
What about me is different?
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