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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

I look at women and they're so well dressed in so many different and interesting styles. When i look at men they are dressed very plain usually "badly dressed" the ones the are well dressed rarely have an interesting style.

I am thinking more about clothes these days because I want a dress style that i find interesting and I struggle to find the mens equivalent what I see in womens clothing.

Ive never gone to a clothing store and seen wizard robes or anything cool. Never seen a cape, never seen a pirate shirt.

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 25 points 4 days ago (4 children)

No one stopping you from wearing a dress

Anyway

Never seen a cape

Can we normalize capes again?, like cmon! This is so cool:

[–] YellowParenti@lemmy.wtf 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I live where we have 3 seasons of summer and about 1.5 months of hoodie weather. There was a freeze and actual snow! spouse took a hoodie, other ones were dirty. I took my wool blanket, folded it in half, and used 3 safety pins to hold it in my shoulders. It looked like this

But in dark gray with sweater, jeans, and my tan work boots. I felt damn cool and people were checking me out. Live your dreams!

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 4 points 3 days ago

That damn cool!
I am also gonna save the video for future referemce thx :3

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

you could probably get away with ponchos.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I like this, but you can be spotted a mile away.

Always wear a gillie suit.

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 7 points 3 days ago

Uh i mean more as a daily thing to wear not for war or such

[–] BlaestEgnen@feddit.dk 3 points 3 days ago

A summer cape, a pair of undies and nothing else?

[–] Hapankaali@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago (3 children)

It's an interesting phenomenon, because throughout most of human history it was men who wore (if they could) flamboyant outfits, while women tended to be more demurely dressed. Sexually dimorphic species (ducks, peacocks, etc.) are often similar, with males having vibrant colours. What changed, and why? I'm sure some sociologist has thought of an answer.

Signed, plainly dressed man.

[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Be the change you want to see in the world!

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

If I step outside looking like that im getting bashed 100%.

[–] crank0271@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

By whom, the peasants? A curse upon their houses.

[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 2 points 2 days ago

If thou dost bringeth thy flute, thee canst play a vicious mockery tune at them.

[–] BlaestEgnen@feddit.dk 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I think the reason is as simple as flamboyant outfits being easily available.

Two hundred years ago, a flamboyant outfit indicated you did minimum manual work. As that'd destroy the drip, and it was also quite expensive. While commoners would wear often brown/grey work outfits.

It's the same reasons for why it used to be in to be white/pale, as that indicated you'd stay inside all day rather than working the fields. Now it's in to be tan, as that indicates you're able to sunbath rather than work in an office all day long

I think there's also a factor of WW1 and 2, even well into the depression it wasn't too uncommon for men to wear somewhat colorful clothes but after WW2 it seems that the only folks using color were pimps and hippies. From there it was simply a matter of industrial clothing not really giving folks an option.

[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Wisdom Kaye is a male model and he does great videos exploring a more diverse perspective on men's fashion. It may not be exactly what I looking for, but it's definitely a fresh new perspective compared to what I see in day to day male fashion.

[–] glups@piefed.social 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Would any of his outfits work on the orc body-type? Cuz that's more or less what I'm working with

I'm not a fashionista or anything, but I think it's more about finding your style and finding your fit within your style. Feeling good about your look is more important than it working for you in my opinion. The easiest upgrade with the most impact is generally tshirt to some other kind of top, but his looks are often a little more involved than top+bottom. He does have the traditional model aesthetic of tall and thin, but I think his tips and general style could be incorporated by anyone.

[–] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Sure but like he said there's the whole availability aspect. You go to a kohls, or a Walmart, goodwill even, you'll see a load of different styles for women. Men get t shirts, shorts, and maybe a jacket

I'm not suggesting men and women have equal access to equivalent style variety, but it seems like they are saying in part that men don't have "interesting style" options. I recommended watching his stuff because he often wears skirts or dresses or womenswear cuts to get a shape less common in menswear that the commenter might like and be able to mimic. He does whole videos of thrifted fits too. Also lots of general styling tips for men to spice up an otherwise plain look.

I'm not disagreeing with him, just trying to help with the resources I know of. Not really sure what your comment is getting at because I didn't suggest anything other than a possible point of influence that it seems like you aren't familiar with.

[–] RecitalMatchbox@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I get a decent chunk of clothes in the women's section: shorts, pants, sweaters ... They have better shaping, though it takes some searching for good fottong stuff. But also, a french tuck can really add life to a formless men's sweater or shirt.