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[–] CombatWombat@feddit.online 68 points 4 days ago (4 children)

It's more that the internet demands that I'm constantly outraged, but I want to spend the majority of my time being chill and happy. I can get my dander up for most things the internet wants me to be mad about, I just... don't.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Rage bait is the worst internet trend to date. Yeah yeah, I know trolling always existed, but it was actually funny sometimes, done to bait assholes or uppity people usually, and done for the love of the game. Rage bait is just doing something out if pocket or legitimately bad just to get eyeballs on you which now translates to free money for them because the world is a fucked up place that rewards people with no principles now. My wife just saw a TikTok video where some jackass stuck his hand down his pants and the rubbed his hand on his toddler's face. What the actual fuck are we doing, humanity?

[–] canthangmightstain@lemmy.today 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It got monetized. Read up on a Google published white paper “Attention is all you Need” from 2017 and you’ll understand how it all went to shit so quickly.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah. Not too difficult to see how we got here. How to get OUT of this hellhole, however, that's the real question...

[–] canthangmightstain@lemmy.today 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

IMO people will come around. Not quickly and not without a bunch of good things about the internet dying off… but eventually an equilibrium will be reached.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 1 points 2 days ago

I hope so. On the up side, it largely killed my social media addiction. Now I am learning stuff for fun again.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 10 points 4 days ago

that makes them angry though.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I wonder if Palestinians just want to be chill and happy

[–] CombatWombat@feddit.online 3 points 3 days ago

I would be much more persuaded by this argument if someone could draw a connection between my internal experience of anger and a Palestinian's internal experience of being chill and happy. Do donations made in anger count double or something?

The Holocaust. Khmer Rouge. The Rape of Nanjing. Global Warming.

See? Words are easy.

It isn’t that people don’t care enough, it’s that they only have so much to go around and there is no cause so important that you get to dictate someone else’s state of mind 24/7 just because you say tragic words. Keep the fire burning but don’t think you get to sneer at others just because they’re burned out at the moment.

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 4 points 4 days ago

I stopped using Facebook because I got tired of all of that. "You won't believe what [other party] is doing"...