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[–] blunder@hexbear.net 40 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

I'm kinda on yellow*'s side here, let him have his weird politicopsychosexual kink if it is disconnected from his real life. I would not fuck this person but just leave it at that, no need to tell him how he compares to "other Chinese people I know".

Although I shudder to think of who will go along with this, with glee

[–] lil_tank@hexbear.net 32 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yep honestly I think blue did something wrong by repeatedly asking someone to tell their dark kinks and then instantly judging them when they do

Plus assuming that kinking about being dommed by someone in a nazi uniform = being ideologically nazi, especially when the person just defined said practice as "depraved and immortal," is extremely uncharitable

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

Which one is green?

Edit: Do you have something like "night light" on that makes everything more redish. I tried turning mine on and it made the blue look green.


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[–] booty@hexbear.net 27 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It's a masterful joke (even if unintentional) to just say "green" here without elaboration because blue and yellow are almost equally close to green lmao

[–] blunder@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago
[–] RION@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I tried maxing mine and it just looked a little bit more piss-dunked

I choose instead to believe green is a fusion of the two grindrers

[–] someone@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I believe that grindrers are a spectrum, not a binary. Everything from the closeted university students looking to make a real and lasting monogamous romantic connection now that they're living on their own, to the "partiers" ranting about everything, to the DL cheaters looking to get some action while their wives are out of town, to the OF bottom himbos looking for ten inches and a physique like a Greek god, to the kinkster crowd looking to jump into someone else's ropes before even knowing the rigger's name, to the unhinged maniacs who have even managed to get themselves banned from the absolute dive that is Club Hamilton in Hamilton Ontario, to the posters and lurkers of /r/gaymentoronto bemoaning the lack of real social connections even as they ask if anyone else will be at Spa Excess on Friday.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 3 points 3 weeks ago

I know that's right

[–] blunder@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, the yellow one I guess. I'm looking at hexbear before the fucking sun comes up

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Have you considered they may have some form of color blindness

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I did indeed consider that, which is why I initially just asked which one.

Also he/him.


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[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I think it's funny that so much of BDSM often plays on reactionary thinking. Communities centered around humiliation kinks are full of talk about how betas are genetically inferior for their immutable characteristics (like having a small dick), and should therefore be subservient to their superior alphas. I think it crosses the line when you start to bring racial fetishization into it, and I don't understand how a nazi kink would work other than being into the uniforms.

[–] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I don't know how that would work as a kink, and I don't think I want to know.

[–] mrfugu@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

unfortunately, I checked the thread. Sounds like they just want to pretend both parties are nazis and have sex in uniform? They also agreed with another poster that men are usually into it but this woman was not.

[–] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago

I'm not into bdsm, but dom/sub comes to mind

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, people just use "don't kinkshame" as a thought-terminating axiom, but I think someone fetishizing behaving in a racist manner might need help. I can't really say anything about someone who wants to be treated in a racist manner except that it might be good to find other things because it's better to not have people playing the other role there . . .

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

It was because he said "hint: I'm Chinese", she was expressing that she didn't understand how that was supposed to explain things here. She was absolutely not doing something racist.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah ultimately people are into what they're into

However I think when it's something like this you have to be willing to offer a bit more than "I'm Chinese" if you want to engage with people constructively on it

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 5 points 3 weeks ago

He came in for racism play, got actual casual racism instead.

[–] into_highest_invite@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

blue had a completely normal and respectful reaction tbh. i think yellow has a lot of shame around their nazi fetish that made them take it personally