this post was submitted on 02 Dec 2025
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[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 63 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Chinese dude does a very bad job of explaining that he's not a nazi but has a kink for nazi shit in the bedroom. Probably a sub processing various racial traumas with kink, one of those being getting dommed by nazis in the bedroom and having their race insulted. It's a humiliation and masochism kink at its core.

If they actually explained the part that was being misunderstood this whole interaction could have gone differently. The white person is not that kinky and misunderstood having never encountered any of these kinks before. Even someone with some bdsm knowledge could have worked out that it was a subdom "dominate me nazi daddy" thing.

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 42 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

There's something about encountering an uncomfortable kink that turns everyone into an armchair psychologist.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 36 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yeah this race stuff is absolutely not my thing but like I do get the submissive stuff so I can at least understand the core part of it. A lot of submissive trans people are into being called gender slurs and having that used against them for humiliation, that's a similar thing, they're turning their biggest weakness into kink. I can understand that the Chinese dude is just latching onto his own softest spot.

[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 26 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

A lot of submissive trans people are into being called gender slurs

I've seen that occasionally. I wonder if any trans people have used "Don't bully me. I'll cum" tactics against transphobes.

[–] puppygirlpets@hexbear.net 21 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)
[–] someone@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago

For more fun like this check out the subreddit /r/lolgrindr. Technically nsfw I would say, almost all content is text screenshots but sometimes photos are part of those conversations.

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 39 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's easy to look down when I was blessed with healthy ways to process trauma (crying until given affection)

[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 58 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I once saw a post from a gay Italian looking for "a slav to dominate", and I was too scared to ask if that was a typo.

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 43 points 3 weeks ago

liz and brace

[–] blunder@hexbear.net 40 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

I'm kinda on yellow*'s side here, let him have his weird politicopsychosexual kink if it is disconnected from his real life. I would not fuck this person but just leave it at that, no need to tell him how he compares to "other Chinese people I know".

Although I shudder to think of who will go along with this, with glee

[–] lil_tank@hexbear.net 32 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yep honestly I think blue did something wrong by repeatedly asking someone to tell their dark kinks and then instantly judging them when they do

Plus assuming that kinking about being dommed by someone in a nazi uniform = being ideologically nazi, especially when the person just defined said practice as "depraved and immortal," is extremely uncharitable

[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I think it's funny that so much of BDSM often plays on reactionary thinking. Communities centered around humiliation kinks are full of talk about how betas are genetically inferior for their immutable characteristics (like having a small dick), and should therefore be subservient to their superior alphas. I think it crosses the line when you start to bring racial fetishization into it, and I don't understand how a nazi kink would work other than being into the uniforms.

[–] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I don't know how that would work as a kink, and I don't think I want to know.

[–] mrfugu@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

unfortunately, I checked the thread. Sounds like they just want to pretend both parties are nazis and have sex in uniform? They also agreed with another poster that men are usually into it but this woman was not.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

Which one is green?

Edit: Do you have something like "night light" on that makes everything more redish. I tried turning mine on and it made the blue look green.


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[–] booty@hexbear.net 27 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It's a masterful joke (even if unintentional) to just say "green" here without elaboration because blue and yellow are almost equally close to green lmao

[–] blunder@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago
[–] RION@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I tried maxing mine and it just looked a little bit more piss-dunked

I choose instead to believe green is a fusion of the two grindrers

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[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

It was because he said "hint: I'm Chinese", she was expressing that she didn't understand how that was supposed to explain things here. She was absolutely not doing something racist.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah ultimately people are into what they're into

However I think when it's something like this you have to be willing to offer a bit more than "I'm Chinese" if you want to engage with people constructively on it

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[–] Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net 31 points 3 weeks ago

cracker

lol

slur

lmao even

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 29 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Kinks are weird. I know a guy with a vore kink who's a die-hard vegan irl.

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Well, tbf if the vore is consensual then that would be vegan.

[–] someone@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

This is why semen from a consenting partner is vegan.

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[–] dragongloss@hexbear.net 28 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] abc@hexbear.net 28 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

posting screenshots of your grindr, tinder, hinge, bumble, facebook dating, craigslist m4w/m4m/missed connections conversations would trigger an immediate "get this person to a two-week camp that will explain why they need to stop posting such stuff online" flag in my ideal authoritarian communist world nineteeneightyfour

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I promise I will not post screenshots of the conversation that led to me putting on a commissar outfit and stepping on someone catgirl-smug

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[–] someone@hexbear.net 27 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

So uh asking for a friend but uh how do we feel about a dom outfit involving lots of leather and some USSR military iconography, and non-physical interrogation play?

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 30 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

[A comment that has no problem with what you are concerned about, but is instead concerned about the leather, it's vegan right, and volcel-judge]


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[–] Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is it okay if it's military surplus? I have an old Soviet trenchcoat I got for like 40 bucks and it has a leather collar but I bought it second hand.

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[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 21 points 3 weeks ago

All politics is something something

[–] mrfugu@hexbear.net 21 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

More and more I’m realizing that many subs truly feel as though they deserve domination. I just like physical pain and going along with the bit. We are not the same.

[–] Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

My old girlfriend scratched the hell out of my chest (not even on purpose) and I think it awakened something in me.

And she was the sub in that relationship.

O to be young again.

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[–] juniper@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah fr I just like some ouchies and will play along with being a bad boy

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[–] oscardejarjayes@hexbear.net 18 points 3 weeks ago

weird as hell

[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I think he's bi or pan. He said blue is a woman, and her username is "tgirlswag".

I don't know why anyone would have a conversation like that and then publicly post it using an account that has their face on it.

Edit: I took another look at his profile, and he had the good sense to remove his face from it.

[–] GoodGuyWithACat@hexbear.net 18 points 3 weeks ago

I'm getting a lot of questions about my "Chinese guy into Nazi kink" t-shirt that are answered by the shirt.

[–] Moonworm@hexbear.net 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Everybody's accepting of kink until it's something they don't like.

All of my kinks are morally righteous and the correct amount of deviant. My personal and experiential relationship to the kink exonerates me from endorsing what would otherwise be objectionable about it. Your kink is disgusting. There's no way you could be into it in a way that is anything but wicked; you clearly endorse what is objectionable about it.

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I only have woke kinks while ur kinks are all reactionary and/or revisionist

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 18 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

my only kink is respecting women.

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[–] Umechan@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I only have kinks grounded in revolutionary theory, and all your kinks are LIB kinks.

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[–] RedSturgeon@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

idk it seems like a bait, why would they use the word Nazi specifically? You can explain the same thing in different words and most Americans would be very understanding. You could just explain that you're into being dommed, that's how you process trauma, that you like the sleek design of a ~~Nazi~~ German Uniform because of how authoritarian it looks.

A lot of this could have been resolved with conversation to get further context, but like if they start saying things like "No, the Swastika has to stay on." Then yeah, maybe something is up after all.

[–] ElChapoDeChapo@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago
[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

case of "Why did this person post themselves acting like this?"

[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago
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