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On the 10th of April 1912, The Titanic set sail from Southhampton in England for her maiden voyage across the Atlantic Ocean. Four days later, just before midnight on the 14th, Titanic struck an iceberg, which caused it to take severe damage and sink during the night, leading to the death of the majority of her passengers.

At the time, Titanic was one of the most advanced ships in the world. It was as a steam-powered ocean liner, a type of ship specifically built to repeatedly make the dangerous crossing between Europe and America. Because air travel was not available at the time, this service was vital, and Titanic was built at a time where different shipping lines were constantly trying to outcompete each other in building the fastest and most luxurious ships. The Titanic was equipped with restaurants, cafes and even a Turkish bath (a sort of spa / sauna hybrid), though due to the strict segregation of first, second, and third class passengers, only a minority were allowed access to these accomodations.

The White Star Line, who built and operated the Titanic, was convinced the ship wouldn't sink, and did not adequately prepare for it, only carrying enough lifeboats to carry a portion of the ship's passengers. While this claim seems absurd today โ€” modern ship are far, far safer than the Titanic, but no one would ever claim they couldn't sink โ€” it was a popular sentiment at the time. Because of the Titanic's novel and highly advanced watertight compartments, it was thought that even if she suffered catastrophic damage, she would bob around on the surface like a cork, rather than sink to the bottom, so there would be no hurry to evacuate the passengers

Later, the story of the titanic would go on to become something of a pop culture legend, the greatest example being the 1997 movie by James Cameron (it's really good actually). A bunch of conspiracy theories about the ship's fate has also popped up over the course of the last century, some gaining significant traction despite the lack of evidence.


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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

sex and sadnesskitty-cri-screm why does everything about this make me so sad. Masturbating makes me feel sad. My fantasies have been sad for a while now. Touching it makes me sad. Fantasizing about a partner makes me sad and anxious. Feel super terrible about the idea of anyone seeing me, obviously that makes it super hard to get, like idk in the mood or anything. It also makes me worry about finding someone, I know its important for most people and its kinda the thing that makes me feel the most broken. I try not to worry about it because that's a future issue but its still a thing. I just hate being sad and dissociating and broken feeling every time and I still feel horny kinda a lot and should do maintenance, idk.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

spoilerMasturbation is not the same when you transition especially on E, read Fucking Trans Women vol 0 for more ideas on what to do. There's more rubbing on the perinanal zone (between testicle and anus, closer to anys). You also should treat the head like its actually a clit (it pretty much is anyway). I found stuff changing and getting more pleasurable after E when I started treating it like it was more like a vagina.

You'll meet someome~ but being single isnt a failure state.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

spoilerYea, I need to start using it differently more... even 3 months on E I can tell its changing a bit, definitely looking forward to that being more what I need.

treat the head like its actually a clit

idk if this is tmi but I struggle with that once it gets hard, maybe I just need to keep trying things but I don't really understand how that would work.

I'll try to remember that, I do just really want someone too, and physical affection. But ty for the reminder. Hope I do find someone, it'll probably be a bit still..

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago

spoilerMy advice to any new transfem is a Hitachi magic wand or equivalent. It's a real game changer.

I push it onto the head and toward my belly button so it can't move. Feels great. Sometimes I swap it up and do the perineal area to hit the prostate.

It even works really well through clothes so if you have dysphoria at seeing the penis, you can go over underwear or clothes.