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On the 10th of April 1912, The Titanic set sail from Southhampton in England for her maiden voyage across the Atlantic Ocean. Four days later, just before midnight on the 14th, Titanic struck an iceberg, which caused it to take severe damage and sink during the night, leading to the death of the majority of her passengers.

At the time, Titanic was one of the most advanced ships in the world. It was as a steam-powered ocean liner, a type of ship specifically built to repeatedly make the dangerous crossing between Europe and America. Because air travel was not available at the time, this service was vital, and Titanic was built at a time where different shipping lines were constantly trying to outcompete each other in building the fastest and most luxurious ships. The Titanic was equipped with restaurants, cafes and even a Turkish bath (a sort of spa / sauna hybrid), though due to the strict segregation of first, second, and third class passengers, only a minority were allowed access to these accomodations.

The White Star Line, who built and operated the Titanic, was convinced the ship wouldn't sink, and did not adequately prepare for it, only carrying enough lifeboats to carry a portion of the ship's passengers. While this claim seems absurd today โ€” modern ship are far, far safer than the Titanic, but no one would ever claim they couldn't sink โ€” it was a popular sentiment at the time. Because of the Titanic's novel and highly advanced watertight compartments, it was thought that even if she suffered catastrophic damage, she would bob around on the surface like a cork, rather than sink to the bottom, so there would be no hurry to evacuate the passengers

Later, the story of the titanic would go on to become something of a pop culture legend, the greatest example being the 1997 movie by James Cameron (it's really good actually). A bunch of conspiracy theories about the ship's fate has also popped up over the course of the last century, some gaining significant traction despite the lack of evidence.


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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

spoilerI just don't believe it. I never showed any signs of being trans as a kid- I was never feminine etc. Yea I've been depressed for a long time but they won't see the connection. They won't be able to see that's why I'm depressed. And just, no signs until I started growing my hair out last year. They'll always remember me as a guy.

sometimes parental love holds out even if they dont truly accept.

That isn't good enough for me. I want to be seen as a woman. A woman with a disfigurement tbh. The like, "agree to disagree but I still love you" is bs and not supportive.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

spoilerBelieve it or don't, I saw it first hand. My mom and sisters definitely accepts me as a woman, so I know its true first hand. Im not saying this will be your reality, you know your family better and you know them first hand (I only know what you've written, which doesn't sound promising but one never really knows)

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I didn't mean I don't believe your experience, sorry. I really communicated poorly there. I was trying to say I don't believe my family will. Thank you. I always appreciate your words

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

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You probably know best since you've been for so long with your parents. However, we might sometimes be too paranoid and make pessimistic predictions about people. It's probably a good idea to probe them a little, but you might have already done that (I don't remember).

But yeah, I feel roughly the same way about my own parents, and it takes a lot of convincing myself that I need to be more realistic in predictions rather than just assuming everyone hates (even though a good 80% of the people I know pretty much do).