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My dang wife forgot to do the dang megathread so now you lot get this shit.

Let this be a lesson.


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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think Im feeling resistant towards this, and I shouldn't youre just feeling some stuff, because it does feel very transmedicalist and bioessentialist

Which I dont think is what youre doing!! I feel like my proverbial hockles are going up like a dog seeing a threat cause it feels so close to terf-style things.

There is no brain region and no external test, youre trans femme because you want it. And that freedom is scary and its exhilarating and joyful. I had a lot of confidence and "fuck off no one tells me what to do" in me when I transitioned and its only grown which is probably why I never wondered if there was a test

[–] RION@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

I feel like my proverbial hockles are going up like a dog seeing a threat cause it feels so close to terf-style things.

I know exactly what you're talking about, when I've talked to my therapist about some of this stuff I've prefaced it with "this makes me feel like a bad person/I hate saying this because it sounds like what a bigot would say" even if it's only hurting myself in that moment