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::: spoiler dysphoria
I have to grow my facial hair out for electrolysis and my 
is going hard. Its tough to feel cute when 5 days a week I have to have this disgusting wretched stuff on my face.
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It's the worsttt. I hope you can find ways to feel cute during the process 
Avoiding my face for a while helped me refocus some of my attention (positively) on other parts of my appearance. Easier said than done sometimes, but it was nice to work on things like style and feel like I'm not just stuck
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Yeah.... My face is one of the more dysphoric parts of my body, specifically because of the hair... It... It sucks. Kinda crushing. I'm just trying to ignore it for now but it heavily translates into me not taking care of myself. Like, my facial hair levels are directly correlated with how put together my life is. Not shaving makes everything harder 
is there a name for "getting obsessive over emotionally unavailable but kind and pretty women who were nice to you once but can't emotionally commit to a relationship, regardless of whether they want one to the point where you've emotionally destroyed yourself inside" fetish because i seem to really enjoy doing that to myself and i guess it's just a kink of mine
Winter will be the death of me. every year it gets more unbearable.
My thoughts are slowly drifting from βgood ideas for a trans stoner comedy filmβ towards βwhat would happen if we forcibly injected Seth Rogan with estrogen over a prolonged periodβ.
superbad but they're closeted trans girls who end up realize they're transbians for each other
mclovin is nonbinary
My dogβs farts smell especially bad this evening but itβs way too cold to open a window. 
Pretended to be happy today.
It worked
Although that may have been cause I talked to my friends and drank beer.
Well ... they still misgendered me constantly and I didn't stand up for myself at all. So that was fun.
I can't imagine myself standing up for myself even when I'm happy. Cause I don't really care about myself. If I did, I'd be taking a lot more steps towards social transition.
Are you out to them? Because if they don't respect you, then they shouldn't be your friends.
I am out yo them. One of them I've had extensive discussions with.
As for respect, nobody respects me sigh.
Amazing how even my happy moments are so pathetic.
it's been cold here lately so ive been cozy maxxing with this extremely warm poncho sweater, that i bought from torrid, and it's been absolutely wonderful. i didnt used to get this cold before e, but i love to be able to just add more layers 
New* Boards of Canada! (Someone was able to buy higher quality rips of their old stuff and upload it in the last few days, stuff from the 80s-90s waow)
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
Once/if working womb transplants become a thing, whos gonna be the first trans woman to get an abortion
cw for abortion?
I want so badly for it to be me.
There have been successful womb transplants, although up to this point only for cis women.
Oh, i didnt realize! Ill amend my comment to "working womb transplants for trans women", then
Its true! The first kids born to women who had womb transplants have already been born, and theyre in like kindergarten and grade school already. Trans women were explicitly denied in the protocol to determine eleigibility they set up for it though, but in principle there is no biological reason it couldnt be done (you also dont get to keep the uterus forever, like 2 to 4 years max and they take it back out)
If im getting this right, are u saying womb transplants for trans women are already theoretically possible with modern technology? /genq
Yes.
We got the space in the abdomen, we have great vessels to plug in just like cis women, we got hormones (store-bought but whatever). Every delivery of a baby born to a uterus transplant is a c-section (they never have an SVD)
Junior was a documentary
Under socialism trans women giving birth will be common. This is the future the left wants.
Oh wow! Ig i have to again amend my comment to "once society gets over its transmisogyny enough to accept pregnant trans women"
In my girlypop era
bottom surgery updates day 22
Went to see my gyne today! Everything's going well! I have some fibrin issue in the typical spot. The gyne had no concerns. She was doing a study on post op care and asked if I wanted to take part, I did and filled out a survey. There was quite a bit on sexual experiences, and like I cant even touch my vagina properly yet (too fresh a wound) and its still pretty numb from the edema and nerves still figuring out where they all went and doing their job. I still get horny but cant touch π, I did get wet though which was... weird. Totally different feeling than before.
Pain is pretty minimal, I'm walking, I'm living my usual life just about. There's no way I could work though, Im healing well in no small part due to all the resting time I have and Ive been pretty strict on the 10 lbs weight limit so Ive not even come close to opening a stitch. Im very happy my union got us some serious short term disability benefits, cause this would be very hard to do on my own without that cash flow.
Having a vagina is way more drippy than I really thought it'd be lol. Stuff feels likes its moving around and sloshing more than I was used to - doesnt help that I have to lube up 4x a day and all the washing and styff. Discharge is going wayyy down. No bleeding.
I live alone and have no pets, so I just hang out with my pussy out all day in my apartment unless I have to go somewhere lol. It does help that I can be drier without lying in bed or in my room. Im also downtown so a lot of stuff is very close like a library, the LRT, whatever and I can drive now anyway.
I highly recommend getting a vagina if you want one π Im very very happy with mine! Never tucking again, looking forward to sexual stuff, when I look in the mirror I just feel... like the total absence of dysphoria which I totally underrated to be honest. A friend of mine who got a vaginopasty described it as feeling light - and yeah I agree!
If aliens ever find an archive of our internet they're going to think humanity was obsessed with fictional characters smoochin'
Can't say theyd be wrong though
Half my dysphoria leaving the body when I suddenly notice that my breasts have grown and they keep getting in my way.
I know I made the right choice. Fuck the consequences.
Enjoy the boobification! 
Unlimited boobs on all transfems
I said this in a more ranty post earlier, but I keep thinking about how entertaining it would be to be a fly on the wall to see how my dad would respond if someone asked him to describe me.
I mean as a person, not what I look like
I wish I had normal people problems instead of this
I don't even know what my problem is. I do know that nothing is fixing it right now.
suicide
Been thinking about killing myself all day today. Its hopeless.
Thinking about some of the conversations I've had lately and it just doesn't help. I don't have any hope of liking or accepting or whatever this fucking awful situation. It truly rips all joy from life. I don't want to find other things.
Living as a trans person is fundementally not for me. I'm very sad to have to go. I wish I could just work up the nerve and leave now. I've seen all there is to see.
suicide
please don't go. please. there is so much more for you to see, there is so much that you deserve to see, and you deserve to feel
suicide
I've been suicidal for a long time and have never made it over the edge yet so i kinda doubt this will be the time either. Wish it would be I'm sick of this shit. Sick of the pain, the work, the waiting, all of it. I would rather die then push through the next year. The next 5. I've been waiting, I got hrt, it still fucking sucks. No where near acceptable. I have no hope of it getting there. idk why I can't just fucking kms already what the fuck.
theres a lot of things I want to see and feel but I'll never make it
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Let's hope the hrt works faster than your courage to take that leap into the void. And voice training too (I don't remember if you're doing that).
Society, the state, patriarchy, "biology", God, and essentialists everywhere can all fuck off; I love being trans :))
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i'm so gay, ya'll
medical stuff, genitals, looking to be fine though
experiencing the rare combo of needing to get both my breasts and galls checked out for anomalies. got an initial examination of the breast lump and it should be something non-serious so thats good, same with the galls. happy to be able to laugh about the combo of it.
also just in case 
PSA to do regular breast/teste self exams