this post was submitted on 03 Feb 2026
66 points (100.0% liked)

traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

1430 readers
59 users here now

Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.

  1. Please follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct

  2. Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.

  3. No personal identifying information may be posted or commented.

  4. Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).

  5. Bring a trans friend!

  6. Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.

  7. Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.

  8. When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.

  9. Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.

  10. While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.

If you need your neopronouns added to the list, please contact the site admins.

Remember to report rulebreaking posts, don't assume someone else has already done it!

Matrix Group Chat:

Suggested Matrix Client: Cinny

https://rentry.co/tracha (Includes rules and invite link)

WEBRINGS:

🏳️‍⚧️ Transmasculine Pride Ring 🏳️‍⚧️

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

My dang wife forgot to do the dang megathread so now you lot get this shit.

Let this be a lesson.


Join our public Matrix server!

https://rentry.co/tracha#tracha-rooms


As a reminder, please do not discuss current struggle sessions in the mega. We want this to be a little oasis for all of us and the best way to do that is not to feed into existing conflict on the site.

Also, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.

Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.

spoiler

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Sex, living at homeI fucking hate living at home. I want to do spontaneous hookups but it's hard when you don't know when dinner will be ready. Dinner time is also prime time hookup time but you can't explain as easily why you want to skip dinner. I was on Grindr messaging with a guy who wanted a BJ just now at 7pm, but dinner wasn't ready yet. My dad said that dinner would be quick so I waited twenty minutes to message him back to say I was down for it. He then messaged me five minutes later to say it was not gonna happen tonight, presumably because he found someone else. And dinner was still not done. It was done 10 minutes later. And looking back I could've gone to him in that time since he lives closeby, but with my dad you never know how long dinner takes to make. He's very unpredictable.

Luckily I arranged to suck that guy's dick tomorrow, so it's still happening. And since it's a set time, I can use an excuse that I'm having a small party meeting. Although it's sad it couldn't happen tonight since I'm down bad.

Do any of you have tips for spontaneous hookups while living at home?

[–] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Tap for spoiler

  1. Tell them you don't feel like eating dinner at that specific time and would prefer for them to just set aside your dinner so you can have it later. If they ask why you are leaving the house, just say you feel like going out cause you feel restless. If you do it too often they'll suspect something but it can work in a pinch
  2. Prepare dinner yourself. If they ask why you made dinner yourself just say that you wanted to cook something and practice cooking skills. Hell maybe even cook some for your fam.
  3. Use chloroform to make your parents go to sleep then leave the house. When they wake up and ask wtf happened say it was a prank. They'll understand.

[–] meler@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

I do 3 all the time. Works like a charm