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Idk when "fuckass parent" posting will end, but they manage to make everything so needlessly exhausting
Had a call with them after ghosting for 3 days.
I shit you not, almost every sentence my mom said was some transparent ass emotional manipulation attempt.
Not a single "I'll accept you", or even trying to manipulate me with "I love you".
Literally made the entire call about her, the effort she made to raise me and how much of a right she has to control me. Constant uses of "if you value your parents at all ..." and "you should take some time and think ..." (even after I told her I've had GD for 8 years).
I have never dealt with a person whose personality and dialogue are so ass that it made me start critiquing the writing skills of her abusive language.
In an alternate timeline I'd be getting her to write down her diatribe and giving feedback on it.
My mother was a lot like this when I came out, it took a while but she did soften somewhat, hang in there
My mom would probably soften up after a while too. But I am not my mom's mom. She is not a child. I can't coddle her through the process of accepting me while I'm dying of having 0 support. That shit is beyond my capability.