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From talking with friends that quit, you should get more into hobbies and things that bring you joy. Maybe keep track of money saved from not spending it on vaping and get yourself something nice.Appreciates the words ^^.
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Tbh, I'm not very good at having hobbies. Part of me wants to start running stairs again, but I have no motivation and dont actually want to do it. I have videogames and coding and the like, but isolation thru those things is pretty bad for me. I'm still trying to get my life in order and learning how to be interested in anything other than my specific interest at a given moment is pretty hard. Right now its a programming project.::: spoiler the rest I'm excited to not be dropping money every week, be able to breathe better, just feel healthier, its really nice. The joy things for me are mostly social experiences, and I try to have those every week or hopefully more often. Im not terribly competent, socially, but I still enjoy it.
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I have the opposite problem in that I have too many hobbies (ADHD) so I'm often in a state of overwhelm from having too many choices. As far as being social goes: I suck at it, too! However, it is a skill that you can get better at. I went from being a total hermit to doing at least a few things every week and the gayer and transer I get the more social power I gain.::: spoiler spoiler