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I was watching a Joe Scott video about the Somerton Man, and at one point he mentions it's believed he just wanted to be forgotten.

I've met a lot of people who are like this. They feel too dysphoric about their life and are eager to see the day when their families all pass away or have memory loss so that the worst parts of their life aren't in other peoples' heads anymore. It's sad.

There are a lot of things we consider rights by default. There's a right to a burial. There's a right to a last meal. There's a right to a will. Some of these have people who philosophize about them but most are taken for granted.

Do you think there's a right to be forgotten? How much do you validate it? What's your reasoning?

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[–] Ludrol@szmer.info 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

If Ea-nāṣir doesn't have a right to be forgotten then no one has.

In the EU "right to be forgotten" means something else. It means that I can go to a company and demand that they delete my data from their servers, not to demand that someone wins The Game about me.

[–] nycki@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

I've written about this on my blog: https://nycki.net/blog/2024-09-21-01-ethics-of-reuploading/

in brief: I think the right to keep one's memories should usually come first over another's right to be forgotten, but its ultimately a consent issue.

[–] m_f@discuss.online 15 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It's too broad of a question. The right to be forgotten in the sense of "Google can't data-mine the shit out of you and track your poop schedule", yes. In the sense of "Musk wants to delete videos of him doing a Nazi salute because he's facing the consequences for being a piece of shit", no. A better term might be a "right to privacy", which gets less applicable as you become more of a public figure or affect the public at large.

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yes, with lots of carve outs:

  • Un-aquited criminals who have not served their time have no right to be forgotten
  • Public personalities who wish to remain public personalities don't get to have it both ways
  • Within reason, binding contracts entered into without coercion should remain binding, maintaing existing contract escape mechanisms.

Otherwise, for the rest of us, I do think we should have a right to be forgotten.

[–] kabi@lemm.ee 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

... is that "caveat" with a dash of bone apple tea?

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If you're referring to "carve out", then nope. See Carve Out Legal Meaning

[–] kabi@lemm.ee 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Ah, thanks. Could only find the business meaning of it, which didn't make sense.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

To the extent that privacy-violating data collected about you should be deleted on request, absolutely.

But there are basic things like public records which should remain public. Birth/death records, property records/titles, marriage records, business ownership, etc.

Ideally it would be nice if there were protections in place on what data a company or government is allowed to collect about you in the first place, but anyone whose personal/private data (not public records) are collected by a company or government office should be able to both request copies of those records on demand and ask that they be deleted if desired.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 6 points 5 days ago

Plenty of reasons for someone to want to start over completely. I would've liked that to still be possible.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

I think you can have a reasonable expectation that companies won't store your personal data without permission while you are still alive. However asking future historians to omit or not investigate your existence seems unreasonable.

[–] FireTower@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

One day the mountains will crumble to the sea. Just as one day we will all be forgotten to history, and in that it is inalienable. The only question is if that's something you would want or not.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 days ago

I really don't know. I'm certainly in favor of it as a legal right within certain restrictions, but I can't say that it is or is not a fundamental human right, though I'm inclined to think it's not.