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No earthly being could've crafted that thing with such total disregard for comfort and human anatomy. It’s giving Area 51 Home Goods Collection – Model Zeta Reticuli.

I have slept on it once and I felt shitty whole day after. It think it isn’t calibrated for human neuroelectric frequencies but it boosts my WiFi signal so hey.

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[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have a pillow that shape and love it.

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I get it, for entities with at least two tentacles and no spine it makes total sense but we humans need something that is actually soft and has the cold zones for your hands.

Moreover something that doesn’t make one side of the body paralyzed when lying on the side due to cutting off any and all blood circulation to one arm

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 3 points 1 week ago

You arm/shoulder doesn't go on your pillow. Your head does.

I find these comfortable, even double stuffed standard pillows are too small for me

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You put your hands on your pillow?

[–] Cycadophyta@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hands go under the pillow. Where do you put your tentacles?

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 1 week ago

They just kinda lay besides me. Just wherever there happens to be room to leave them

[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's an insanely personal question! Only my wife gets to see my testicles.

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 2 points 1 week ago

Silly you, they said spectacles, not testicles

[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I agree with you on the discomfort of this, but I must add that you're using it wrong. This is infact the base that you put another, normal shaped pillow on. Allowing you to reach maximum angular comforts.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You consider that a difficult pillow?

Try these on for size. The first turns your WiFi into 5G. The second into 6G, and the final one turns it into an ansible.

Yes, this last one is, in fact, a solid piece of jade. Why do you ask?

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

As someone who's used hardcover books as pillows, what's wrong with a solid piece of jade? Seems pretty posh.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Jade is quite a bit harder than even a hardcover book. ;)

It's not all that posh, though. That example there costs the equivalent of about $35.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago

Hardness is a lot less important than shape, IMO. Well, I suppose a pillow that's too soft to hold a shape is very bad, but that still comes back to shape, y'know?

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Are you stupid? You sleep on your Abacus?

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 8 points 1 week ago

How else do you count sheep?

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I find these shapes of pillow quite comfortable, though they tend to be memory foam which stops me from using them since I find memory foam just feels warm.

For a side sleeper: The big side goes in the gap between your shoulder and head, to support your neck, and your head then lays on the rest of the pillow. Keeps your spine more aligned, much like a pillow between the knees

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Doesn't work like that sister. If you lie on your side and put that thing where the neck is then your will stop feeling your arm and then whole hand and you will permanently lose it forever. I need that limb for some time yet

I find these shapes of pillow quite comfortable

Just admit it, you are a fricking Romulan

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've never been more insulted in my entire life than being called a Romulan how dare you :D

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I know, this is unforgivable slander. I crossed the line and I am sorry. How can I make amends?

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago

Choccy oat milk

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 week ago

I agree with you. I use pillows of that shape almost exclusively these days.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I know a person who uses a pillow of this shape. Strict side sleeper.

I agree with you, I would be challenged to come up with something more uncomfortable that still meets the definition of "pillow".

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I am sure they are missing some important bones

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago

Doesn't everyone sleep?