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I read a book written by a yogi, he said you should fill your space with flowers & look upon them.
I definitely been feeling it's like my brain has the friends and potential love interest in a circle and while I do think it's fun the amount of times it's picks people incompatible is annoying. I think my main course now is to digest the feelings and work through them as I dive into my new
special interest HVAC
When the gay hits
Grrr I didn't really want to post about this but I'm dornk enough to rn
I'm helping my sister move in a few weeks and I'm going to take the opportunity to also come out as trans to her. We haven't been close since she moved away a little over 10 years ago. I wanted to do this last Christmas but it felt weird since I was still pre-everything at the time, plus we were with our parents as a mini-family gathering, which made it all weird. But this time I'll be going on my own at around 6 months on HRT and with some fem clothing. I know she's somewhat accepting of queer people, but idk how she'll react to her lil "bro" being a trans girl.
Idk I'm not looking for advice or whatever, just wanted to vent my anxieties about something coming up ๐คทโโ๏ธ
My trans friend is making awesome progress! I helped her get a GP appointment (intake forms were tricky and I recommended the local Very Woke clinic) so that she can get a proper referral to gender affirming care (she has that appointment already, but I want to make sure her insurance covers it). And her boss is being incredibly chill about her coming out. He is gay so he knows what kind of support she needs. Plus, she came out to other people before him just to make sure she would have support.
Before this, I was the only person in her life using her proper pronouns and name. But she is realizing how little most people think about or care if someone is trans in our city. It seems that her parents will not take her transition seriously until she starts to look different. They misgender her all the time.
Despite my personal problems with my parents, I am grateful that they are very pro LGBT libs and are using her pronouns when she comes over.
I tried the new blue monster after reading @Shaleesh@hexbear.net's comment and it is really good. Adding that to my rotation haha
+1 on that rec
Ireland might be immune to climate change because we still get shitty overcast days every fucking day all June. I think I managed to get to the beach once this month. Praying for sunnier days in july
Deepseek, tell me I'm pretty.
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Memory is so shit lately, can barely remember what I actually did or what's happened. Lost my headphones. Literally no clue where they could be or when I even lost them.
Also a ton of negativity bubbling
stuff that might trigger dysphoria for trans women
is it fucked up that I like looking like a guy with long hair and tiny boobs
like I don't pass as a woman at all but I look like a guy who's far from masculine, and I'm okay with it, not just in a coping way. my face is still rough and exposes facial hair shadow. my shoulders are wider than most women my size
I wish I had less fat around my midsection but aside from that I like myself
^boobs^
My elderly aunt reached out to me out of the blue and offered to pay for my srs if I want it but can't afford.
Like I hadn't even been thinking about it, partially cause it's scary but mostly cause I just assumed I would never be able to.
But now that it's a possibility, I guess I should do some research. Not much has changed in the last 20 years right?
You can get zero depth (no cavity, just labia, looks like any other vagina externally), a friend of mine got it cause she doesnt really do penetrative sex. You can get phallus preserving vaginoplasty where they give you a cavity and labia but keep the other thing around. Sometimes they line you with a little bit of viscera for more wetness, or a little section of intestine. Theres a couple girls I've been with who has the standard inversion and they both got wet while... we were uh in use... and both looked like any other birth vagina I've seen that close.
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Finally looking at the local queer events and I once again have a bunch of conflicts
I once again ask, how the fuck and when the fuck am I supposed to be making friends
I really need there to be explicit "well, I guess that makes us friends" kinds of moments or, I shit you not, I will not make any inferences from the interaction. I'll assume you meant well but would ultimately rather never see me again.
If you indicate that you will see me around, or express interest in future plans, that's pretty clear too, although if we don't set it up then, I don't really know if you meant it. I myself don't feel this agency in most situations, because I assume that the other person is more in the position to say "I like this person, the interaction shall continue". Like I have less of an opinion, somehow, or less of a say?
I can't do the lonely thing my whole life like some people can. This is gonna whittle me down.
the guy jeans i still wear really arent doing me any favors but I dont know what to do about that without spending money on jeans I dont need in cuts I havent verified look good on me yet :/ wish i had skirts. I'm probably going to retire the current pair I'm wearing because I think they are just not flattering whatsoever.
OMG you're so hot. I love it when you are that confidant, I love the way you love yourself, I love how optimistic you are even when things seem bleak