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Capitalism and its allies (racism, queerphobia, ableism, and patriarchy, just to name a few) have turned what aught to be a time of rest and celebration at years end into the mess we know as "Christmastime". These systems of abuse and exploitation that we struggle against are in fact so deeply embedded into the "traditions" surrounding Christmas that their removal would render this so-called "holiday" totally unrecognizable. Without the atomization, the abuse of laborers and the gross consumerism fueled by the violence of empire… what would be left of what was once called Christmas?

The true War on Christmas lies not in saying "seasons greetings" or "holiday tree" but in the battles we wage for the liberation of all mankind.

Happy holidays comrades, a better world is possible.


The image (which is tight as hell) is a commemorative poster by Vladimir Menshikov depicting Ded Moroz, a Russian/eastern slavic cultural figure similar to Santa Claus, as a partisan in the Great Patriotic War. The poem in the bottom left (roughly) translates to:

We have settled our score with the invaders: To the executioners who barely survived, Our partisan raids, fierce and relentless, Still haunt their dreams at night.

Image and translation credits to Propagandopolis on twitter (its an xcancel link).

I was too busy with the nonsense to produce an actual effortpost so this is what we're getting this week lol.


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 1 points 6 minutes ago* (last edited 5 minutes ago)

Thought of a few of you on the first video of my nightly doomscroll

spoilerIt's "emotional dimorphism" and ig biting is a way to regulate the emotion of being overwhelmed by cuteness.
spoiler spoiler More of a thing for me now :::

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

If a male family member offers me a hand shake at Christmas like they would another male relative, they get me ignoring it and going for the hug where I press my breasts against them and I hold it just an imperceptible moment too long.

They brought this on themselves.

[–] catter@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago

I have been doing the same and kind of relishing how annoyed they get when I ignore their hand and do the "hug?" gesture. Very powerful technology.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago
[–] catter@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

silly toxic masculinityLearned through the grapevine that my mother-in-law was going to give me a nice candle for Christmas (she knows I love candles) and my father-in-law shot it down because "that's a gift women give to other women or men they have a crush on." What the fuck? I'm not out, but holy shit what a hyper-specific, meaningless gender rule. I have given men in my family flowers and candles AND THEY LOVE IT! Some cis people are ridiculous.

[–] Sator_is_Tense@hexbear.net 1 points 3 hours ago

the OP pic is funny b/c Santa looks like he's just posing for the camera whereas his femme companion is holding that ppsh like she means fuckin business

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 8 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

depression, dysphoriaI'm getting depressed about my hair again. Also, I have no privacy in this place, I wish I could just go to my room and cry.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 7 points 6 hours ago

I really just wanna go home and stay in my bedroom

[–] puppygirlpets@hexbear.net 11 points 8 hours ago

mewwy cwistmas to all who celebrate

doggirl-happy

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

How to hide hormone shit from family? The danger of them finding out is like the main reason i havent started diy yet (well, also that im a stupid fuh wholl 2nd guess herself every turn without a handholding guide doggirl-smug but i can probably overcome that problem). I can maybe ask some other ppl ik to store it at their places but i want other ideas cuz idk if thatd work doggirl-sweat

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

None of it is that big tbh, could easily be hidden in a shoebox under your bed or probably in your drawers or something. I have 2 years of stuff and its probably a shoebox worth even with a sharps container for needles. If you got maybe like 6months-a year of needles maybe it could fit in a stuffed animal? Its temp sensitive enough I wouldn't put it in my pc case though. Could fit in a drawstring bag in the bottom/back of a closet too.

Injections are usually every week/10 days, if none of that works out there's also an ester (Undecylate) that's done monthly. Its a bit trickier to dose from what I've heard but if you couldn't make the other options work that's something you could do too.

That was a problem for me too if you need help feel free to DM me.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 6 points 8 hours ago

You only gotta do it once a week. I just put everything into a drawer with a lock and then locked it. You can dispose of supplies whenever you're alone, just be sure to do it appropriately.

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 8 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Soggy biscuit with all transfems that have been on HRT for long enough is just normal biscuit

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

spoilerI dont cum much anymore (to my general relief) but I do absolutely produce some shit that I guess is more or less the equivalent of getting wet? If someone is hot enough and were talking dirty or making out, I will be leaking to my eternal surprise. No orgasm or whatever

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I regret searching what it is

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

tuxedo mask? more like tuxedo masc 😎 🌹

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Watch sci-fi chinese cultivation donghua

There is a Donald Trump reference in there

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 2 points 9 hours ago

Also an undertale reference, in the same episode

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 10 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Starting to wonder how much my inability to enjoy dancing was actually just dysphoria in a hat

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

I love dancing at night clubs and with partners doing swing or whatever after transitioning! I didnt mind boogeying as a boy but I LOVE it as a woman!

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 8 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

"Stand users attract other stand users" is true as hell because my friend group is like 95% queer and/or neurodivergent, and that was completely without seeking out each other. I have a lot of friends and we all bonded over being slightly weird, and now looking at things, nearly all of us are either queer or neurodivergent. I think I have two, maybe three friends who are straight and neurotypical, and I have a lot of friends so that's saying something. This is completely unintentional on our behalfs because very few of us knew we were queer and/or neurodivergent growing up together

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 6 hours ago

I used to think I was the straight friend in my groups or the neurotypical one really was just hiding myself too much because I was uncomfortable about standing out

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

This shit is 100% real btw. Back in middle school I had a super queer friend group. We even had our token "American military LARPing christian boy" who later turned into a trans-femme communist. I was super happy with these people. Now my college friend group is all cishet men and I feel more lonely than ever.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 5 hours ago

Most of my college friends were cishet and slowly but surely over 10 years were all trans or otherwise queer, except the one guy. Tick tick BRIAN

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 10 hours ago

Its always wild to me how many of my friends have adhd, like everyone I get along best with

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I'm doing the thing my dad used to do, where he couldn't find the exact gift that the extended family wanted and so he got the off-brand version. Deal with it nieces and nephews, I have untreated ADHD and didn't remember Christmas shopping until last week! Now you get to relive my childhood!

[–] meler@hexbear.net 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

My dad is zoom calling me into the family Christmas gathering tomorrow. Oh that end call button is gonna be so tempting the entire time dear god

[–] mean@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Would there be any repercussions to hanging up? Because if not you should just do it if you feel the need.

[–] meler@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

There is a very high chance that will be happening

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 12 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

6 days :) I’m so worn out from family shit that I don’t think I’m noticing many effects . I want to fight my siblings and cry, but they always irritate me so that could easily be separate. Still not drinking but I’m absolutely surrounded by alcohol which sucks. I can’t wait to come out next year and go to my partner’s family for the holidays. They’ve already started calling me she while I’m still “man, dude, boy” to my immediate family… maybe this is the estrogen cuz I kinda feel like crying despite nothing bad really happening. One sibling “they”d me which I guess is progress. It feels shitty and ungrateful to say, but I’m so exhausted I wish I was back home

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

My stomach hurts like crazy but at least I have an excuse to look pained and not socialize. Why does this happen the first holiday I don’t drink smdh (is nausea/diarrhea a side effect of starting mines?)

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Haha. We're having the same experience basically

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry for bombarding with replies, but yeah we’re definitely in the same boat. It’s nice to have comrades here because a lot of our best posters are in so deep!

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

Don't worry about it. Being stuck with family during Christmas is an experience. My grandmother is already annoying me about my hair. I just turn away and don't even reply.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

I got an email from my registered gender clinic asking about my insurance details so that they know who to charge money for the healthcare they will provide me ... starting 3 years from now (expected wait time).

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It took me basically 3 years from wanting bottom surgery and getting on the wait list for the gender clinic to it happening in January. The time passes.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago

I know, I'm being dramatic. 3 years from now I'll be fine. (Even though I'm not fine right now)

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

What the fuck

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I know. I'm DIYing already. But eventually I do need to go legal (I'm an immigrant. I can't go off grid)

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 7 points 11 hours ago

It's not a bad reflex to have honestly, considering the medical gatekeeping a lot of us would otherwise face.

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